HypnoPsi
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I'm not quite sure how you can expect to be treated with kid gloves when you're making swathing statements about therapists and your pronouncements could have serious impact on patient care.... I welcome your comments that hypnotherapy clearly has a bright future, but if you're big enough to enter a serious debate with some serious comments I think you should be prepared to justify your stance...The Mighty Thor said:Well, Stephen, maybe you need to work on your self-relaxation techniquestonyb's bedside manner is much more decorous.
You have my sympathies. Maybe I should give you a more comprehensive view of my position - I view hypnotherapy to be as harmless and valuable as physiotherapy and dietetics and have a firm belief that all the silliness that surrounds it will eventualy be viewed as one of the greatest medical/psychological superstitions of all time. If you think I'm being too hard on you, bear in mind that it's because I know first hand the effects that fears about hypnotherapists can cause. People with, say, serious heart conditions or cancer could benefit immensely from the treatments we provide for chronic pain and having their immune system boosted. Yet, all too often we find ourselves battling against unjustified fears and concerns - and we also have our careers to consider. When you make statements of the sort your making don't be too surprised to find yourself on the receiving end of the odd swipe or two.I will probably buy one of the books you linked to, since I have personal experience of two WWII vets. They were both of the 'we don't talk abot the war' types, and both worked all their lives until retirement age. It was only then that they seemed to deteriorate with PTSD. One was a gentle man, the other a hard guy, but they both succumbed with increased dysfunction when their wives died. One was my dad, the other is my father-in-law.
And this is the type of thing that we would like to be able to treat - and we definately could - without having to jump through hoops every time. You have to understand that the things that come up in hypnoanalysis are more likely to be: "Wow! I haven't about that for ages. I must have been about 5 or 6. We were at the beach and this dinghy I was started to drift out to sea. I was terrified when the waves started to hit me. I recall my father swiming out to get me and taking me back to may mother. I must have cried my eyes out for about an hour!"Your last paragraph is wrong. I hope hypnotherapy as well as other therapies can help people without them having to get ECT, as my dad did. And it did help -- for a week after the shocks, he was back to his old self, but seemed to revert back to lethargy and depression after one or two weeks.
Don't play games. You are a skeptic on a forum devoted to discussing the reality or nonreality of the paranormal and began a thread to debate the safety of hypnotherapy. You are not some innocent here who is merely considering hypnotherapy personally or concerned for a loved one who may be doing so.I've expressed my concerns to the best of my ability. I'm no expert, and certainly not a crusader. But I think, if you are honest with yourself, you will see why people might ask such questions. They want the best, most appropriate treatment for their loved ones. What's wrong with that? I don't have 'an agenda', btw, but as a potential client, I think I have the right to expect courteous answers for my concerns. Whether they convince me or not, is up to me.
My point here is that you are making several claims about hypnotherapy that seem to be either wholly unwarranted entirely or blown out of all proportion. You are right in that therapists should have the deepest concern for the safety and well being of their patients - but whether you like it or not that also means pointing out, sometimes pointedly, when people might be saying things that could, needlessly, scare people out of seeking treatment.
You've been discussing false memory syndrome but what about the false beliefs that you are encouraging? If you're going to be a critic that's fine - but you have to bear in mind that your criticisms will have impact. Thus, no kid-gloves.
And don't forget your affirmations... ;-)Now as I try to go to sleep, I will do my abdominal deap breathing and take myself off to my favourite relaxing spot. That usually works for me.![]()
All the best,
Fortean Stephen