Funny that lots of Haitians seem to be helping others. You make it sound like they are incapable and all need rescue from the competent outsiders.
I think you need to reassess this position.
This is a good point (missing one detail) which is somewhat cleared up by looking at a map. There is a lot of Haiti that isn't its capital city.
The one missing detail is that Port Au Prince is the center of gravity of Haiti. Of all the places for an earthquake to hit Haiti, particularly of this magnitude, Port Au Prince is the worst case scenario. President Preval has only so many hours in the day. His nation gets fed billions in aid each year. He is keenly aware of how capable, or less so, his government is, so he has to share time between being able (with his critical infrastructure in Port Au Prince in tatters) to do things, to be seen to do things, and to coordinate the deluge of assistance being offered from abroad. I expect he's busting his butt to keep his head above water.
I am sure you are right in your general point, that a lot of Haitians are helping their Haitians. Any of us would help our neighbors when bad things come down. But for whatever reason, the media doesn't wish to latch onto those narratives.
Why do you think that is?
In part, it is due to micro level assistance being finite in reach and scope. The scale of the mess this earthquake generated is profound, possibly an order of magnitude more damaging than a large hurricane hitting Haiti.
The key coordinating capability (government, the hub of most nations' collective activity) is the site of the disaster. The needs are greater than what the government itself can handle alone, unless you want the aid and assistance to come slowly. From your OP sentiment, you are not interested in slow arrival of aid, and neither are those who wish to be of assistance. What you seem to have demanded is an omniscience on the part of an aid program that is falling in on a chaotic mess, where re-establishing lines of communication / logistics from the ground up is as much part of the mission as is the delivery of aid and assistance to the many who are stuck in a very bad situation.
I think you are asking too much, and being needlessly critical and most importantly, impatient.
ETA: From an NBC news story. This isn't just a natural disaster of major import, it's got elements of the breakdown of the social fabric. Imagine a quake in CA where San Quentin breaks open and all the inmates get out.
Elsewhere, overwhelmed surgeons appealed for anesthetics, scalpels, and saws for cutting off crushed limbs. Former U.S. President Bill Clinton, visiting one hospital, reported its staff had to use vodka to sterilize equipment. "It's astonishing what the Haitians have been able to accomplish," he said.
Violence added to complications in places. Medical relief workers said they were treating gunshot wounds in addition to broken bones and other quake-related injuries. Nighttime was especially perilous and locals were forming night brigades and machete-armed mobs to fight bandits across the capital.
"It gets too dangerous," said Remi Rollin, an armed private security guard hired by a shopkeeper to ward off looters. "After sunset, police shoot on sight."
In the sprawling Cite Soleil slum, gangsters are reassuming control after escaping from the city's notorious main penitentiary and police urge citizens to take justice into their own hands.
"If you don't kill the criminals, they will all come back," a Haitian police officer shouted over a loudspeaker.
DR