I was forced to perform fellatio on an older man when I was just 8 years old. An anecdote that I think is relevant to the discussion and not silly.
I hate like Hell that you had to go through that and I hope the perp was punished soundly. I was molested myself while drugged after a tonsil operation when I was five. Digital penetration and fondling is what happened to me but being five and doped up I thought it was part of the treatment.
Of course it's not silly. It's horrific. It's always horrific when this happens to a child.
But therein lies the rub with this entire discussion.
I don't believe anyone in here is saying we should go light on someone who forces a 5 or 8 yr old to do something. The issue is "when is it REALLY molsestation."
In your hyper-feminist, anti-male (maleness as a pathological condition) society, we've gone far overboard in the other direction, so far that we've had people languishing in prison for decades because we were told that kids simply don't "lie" about such things, even when a part of the "molestation" involved the blood sacrifice of elephants in suburban backyards....
So now we have, in this case, a 16 yr old who, after being told his entire life by pop culture--music, TV, movies, etc.--the schools, etc. that there is something wrong with him if, by age 13 or so, he's still a virgin, having consensual sex with his 15 yr-old girlfriend, going to prison because of the hyper-feminist, anti-male witch-hunt atmosphere surrounding this issue.
Is this kid a "child molester"? Is he even a rapist? It's only, apparently, just barely statutory rape in his state, so he's going to prison for a decade and that will ruin his life enough, but when he gets out, he'll also have the "sexual predator" tag following him around forever.
Yeah...that sounds like a fair approach. I'll bet reading about that keeps lots and lots of REAL pedophiles from raping little kids.
But that's okay...we know that as a male, this kid is a "potential" rapist (all men are, right feminists?) so this is just preventative. Now, if we can just start locking people up for their "potential" to say, shoplift: if you have two hands you ARE a "potential" shoplifter, after all....
Tokie