It is interesting to read all of this, as I am facing a very similar situation right now. Among other things, I've founded a non-profit organization that works with one of China's least-known minority groups, the Mosuo. The Mosuo are one of the few matriarchal/matrilineal cultures left in the world, and furthermore do not traditionally practice marriage, but rather can choose and change partners as they please. It is a very unique and fascinating culture, if you want to know more about it, you can click on the link in my signature below to go to our website; you can also read a much more detailed thread that I started specifically about the Mosuo at JREF
here.
Anyway, being a matriarchal/matrilineal culture, the Mosuo naturally get a lot of attention from feminist groups; and this is where the problem arises. Because by far the majority of feminists who go there to "study" the Mosuo are actually going there with a specific agenda of using the Mosuo to prove the "superiority" of female-run societies. Thus, in far too many cases, the actual truth gets lost under a mass of distortions and fantasies.
For example, if you Google "Mosuo", you'll quickly find links to sites that will tell you that the Mosuo have no words in their language for "murder" or "rape". This is true (partly, as I'll explain), but this is then expanded to make the claim that the reason these words don't exist is because, in the Mosuo culture, there is no rape or murder.
The FACTS are as follows: the Mosuo do not have
specific words for "murder" or "rape", but they have
general words for "kill" and "assault" which, when combined with other words ("deliberate killing" or "sexual assault") have those same exact meanings. And any Mosuo will tell you that not only do murders happen, but their mythology is full of stories of murder; and they have their own specific punishment (a slit throat) for any man committing rape...why have a punishment for a crime that "doesn't exist"?
Another popular revisionist claim is that the Mosuo's matriarchal culture, prior to takeover by the Communists (and imposed leadership by men), was a culture of peace, equality, etc. Again, the truth is very different. Historically, the Mosuo actually had a noble (land-owning) class, and a peasant (laborer) class. The noble class were patriarchal and patrilineal; the peasants were matriarchal and matrilineal. This proved to be a very beneficial system for the Mosuo nobility, because all inheritance was traced through the man's side of the family. But if a man went out and fooled around with the peasants, and produced a few illegitimate offspring, they were
no threat to his position because their lineage was traced through the mother's side of the family. Thus, no peasant child would have claims to noble heritage...ever.
I've personally met Mosuo who were peasants under the nobles, and can tell stories about that time. They were treated as most peasants are usually treated...as inferiors. Education, standard of living, etc., were all much poorer for the peasants than for the nobility. Rather ironically, when the Communists took over and abolished "landlords" (including the Mosuo nobility), they also effectively abolished the patriarchal portion of Mosuo culture, leaving them almost entirely matriarchal (the exception to this is that Mosuo priests, called Daba, still follow patriarchal practices).
So much for the "equality for everyone" myth.
Now, don't get me wrong; I think that the Mosuo culture is a fascinating and valuable one, and has a lot that other cultures could learn from. But we're only going to learn by understanding the
truth of their culture, not by building up fantasies to suit personal agendas.
In closing, just a mention of the most blatant and ridiculous "revision" of Mosuo history/culture that I've encountered thus far. A German woman who visited the Mosuo for one week, then returned home and, in her blog, stated that Mosuo women are all lesbians, and engage in sex with men only for purposes of procreation; the rest of the time, men are kept essentially as convenient labor. Not only is this completely untrue, it would be considered a gross insult by most Mosuo, who
do place equal value on both genders.