It is your decision to ignore causality.
Unless you mean something completely different by the word "causality" from what everyone in physics means by the word, then this statement is completely wrong.
It's another source of information
Causality isn't a
source of information. It's statements like this that make me think you must mean something completely different from what everyone else here means, but you haven't defined what you mean by causality. I suggest you do so in order to avoid further confusion.
Yes that's true and I did not say anything to contradict that. Using causality to decide questions of reality is a logical and scientifically valid procedure.
But you
haven't decided questions of reality, you've
only decided questions of preference, namely your own.
In Newtonian mechanics, the position you are advocating makes
some sense. There are inertial reference frames, and non-inertial reference frames, and you can tell which is which by the existence of position-dependent forces which are always proportional to mass (such as centrifugal forces). We call these fictitious forces, and they disappear when we adopt an inertial reference frame. But even here, all you can do is select a
class of reference frames which are special, you cannot pick a single reference frame which represents "reality".
But this position
doesn't actually make sense in general relativity, because there literally is
no difference between gravity and fictitious forces. So there is no way to remove all position-dependent forces which are proportional to mass. But there's also no need to. Everything works regardless of which frame you pick, as long as you handle it correctly.
I am not discussing which frame might be best for some particular purpose. I am using all available tools to decide which frame best describes reality.
But all frames describe reality equally well. And the proof is that all frames provide the exact same description, because all frames will make the exact same predictions.
Yes they do. All frames provide the same predictions but some describe reality better than others and I am proposing that there is a best one.
You must have a strange definition of "better". Because from where I'm sitting, the ONLY criteria for how well
any theory describes reality is the accuracy of its predictions. But if all reference frames provide the exact same answer, their accuracy is all identical. So there is no meaningful sense in which any description is better than any other description. What counts as "better" for you, then, is nothing objective. Because again, the only objective better or worse is accuracy. Anything beyond that is merely your personal preferences, which the universe doesn't care about.
That's the point. My actions changed the top, not he universe; therefore we know the universe has not been changed by my actions and the top is really moving.
No. You missed my point completely. Your actions only changed the top. But that does not, and never did, preclude us from adopting a reference frame that rotates with respect to our table. Hell, we can choose such a reference frame even without a top. But it is the physics of the reference frame, NOT your hand, that makes the universe spin. If you thought otherwise, you completely failed to understand what reference frames are about.
The universe does not have thoughts. I am describing the reality of the universe.
No you aren't. You kept using the term "preferred". But the universe cannot prefer anything if it doesn't think.