Vorpal, your argument makes perfect sense and seems to defy any good response -- other than -- the universe is not a bunch of lines and conics on a sheet of paper.
Not so different in any sense relevant here. Coordinates are book-keeping device for whatever you're measuring. Be that the trajectory of electrons or lines or conic sections or other geometric figures is not important.
Actually, it's even more appropriate for the subsequent discussion: in relativity events are causally connected if and only one is within the other's light cone. So you're pretty much literally picking different coordinates to describe those cones. And just as the geometric figures don't care about which coordinates you pick, neither do those light cones--causal relationships.
But -- seriously, don't you think the earth really rotates on its axis, rather than the rest of the universe revolving around the earth?
No. I think those kinds of questions of "really" are just metaphysical fluff at best. Physical reality is whatever can be measured.
Isn't the latter an ugly picture of the universe?
No. I think it's much more beautiful. Or to be more precise, the generality of laws that don't care about which book-keeping devices humans use is to me a much more beautiful picture of the universe.
So, I'm sitting here having a cup of coffee and decide to set my grandchild's spinning top in motion. Have I set the whole universe in motion revolving around the top? GR will allow me to describe the universe that way, but we all know the historical fact that it was the flick of my hand that did the job and I am not strong enough to move all the galaxies, CMB, and stuff of the whole universe.
Of course you aren't. The events that cause what you see on the distant galaxies around you are causally disconnected from you. Absolutely nothing you do can affect them. (Though in principle you have some ability to affect sufficiently later events in those galaxies.) Causal relations are real things. If event A caused event B, then this relationship holds regardless what coordinates you pick to keep track of things.
It seems to me that you're begging the question. Your argument starts with the supposition that picking a rotating frame
actually does something physical, and then you correctly conclude that this leads to completely nonsensical conclusions. But then we diverge on what to draw from this:
1) You keep the supposition and find GTR at fault for not respecting it.
2) Others simply throw the supposition out.
Or at least, that's my impression--you seem to be treating picking a rotating frame as the same thing as physically spinning around. But it isn't at all! I can predict what I would see if I spin around without picking a rotating frame. Or I can pick a rotating frame and predict what I would see while staying inertial.
All those coordinate choices affect is the system I use to write down the observations I make. It's no different than deciding to graph data on a log-log graph or a Cartesian graph, or write my notes in English or German. It does not change reality in anyway; it's just a representation.
P.S. There are very good reasons to believe that GTR is not the whole story, but they 't have little to do with the issues raised here.