The GM
Graduate Poster
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2004
- Messages
- 1,175
Wow! Lots of good stuff popped up while I was out. I’d like to address some of it.
Michelle (I hope that’s your name, I think I read someone else refer to you that way. If I’m wrong or you’d prefer I address you by your handle, tell me!) was talking about the RR board. I am very familiar with this brand of fundy thought; it’s close to what I grew up in. I admit, once a year on Mother’s Day, I go back to this kind of church out of respect for me mum. At first, this was torture for me. I didn’t want to see these kinds of people, shake hands with them, or hear what they had to say. Now I can do this and not feel that old pressure. Mostly what I witness is an environment that is filled with fear: Fear of God, Fear of the Apocalypse, Fear of going to Hell. I can’t make myself be afraid and I try to set an example of what it’s like to *not* be afraid of God. It’s a better life on this side of the fence. Maybe being a good example is an answer? I dunno. You’ve been over at RR. What do you think?
Eos, who has the coolest damn avatar I’ve seen here, talked a bit about whether one is born w/ fundy tendencies or not. Good question. I have two other siblings, so three kids growing up in the household. Sibling number 1 has the fundy leanings we grew up learning about. Sibling number 2 is moderate and laid back in belief (could have something to do w/ his very gorgeous and somewhat religious SO, though.) I am the black sheep, constantly questioning, always looking for answers. Also, I would add that situational circumstances can fuel fundamentalism. For instance, we had two cases of nearly fatal, chronic illness in our family. I have no doubt our church habits would have been different had we all been healthy. Again, fear feeding fear.
Jar and Fordama chatted a bit about fundamentalism vs fanaticism. I posted the definitions I found at dictionary.com for each word. Fanatics don’t require a religion (ever been to a MLM meeting? Then you know what I mean. J ) Fundamentalism can be a channel through which fanaticism moves, but so can lots of things, kinda like the example Atlas brought up about smokers. Speaking of Atlas, he talked about the ‘terrain of discussion.’ While this is a bit different from his earlier posts in which he said you can’t reason w/ fundies, I’d be interested in seeing what else he has to say on the subject, like if he’s done this, how he opened the discussion, where it led, etc…(If you’re willing, of course. If not, you’re 100% free to tell me to buggar off.
)
Graham said, “Dump the crap and keep the good bits, in other words.”
An excellent piece of advice and can apply to many areas of life, I’m sure!
Critical thinking ain’t easy. Screw it; I’m joining evil dave’s purple squiddy worship. ;D
Michelle (I hope that’s your name, I think I read someone else refer to you that way. If I’m wrong or you’d prefer I address you by your handle, tell me!) was talking about the RR board. I am very familiar with this brand of fundy thought; it’s close to what I grew up in. I admit, once a year on Mother’s Day, I go back to this kind of church out of respect for me mum. At first, this was torture for me. I didn’t want to see these kinds of people, shake hands with them, or hear what they had to say. Now I can do this and not feel that old pressure. Mostly what I witness is an environment that is filled with fear: Fear of God, Fear of the Apocalypse, Fear of going to Hell. I can’t make myself be afraid and I try to set an example of what it’s like to *not* be afraid of God. It’s a better life on this side of the fence. Maybe being a good example is an answer? I dunno. You’ve been over at RR. What do you think?
Eos, who has the coolest damn avatar I’ve seen here, talked a bit about whether one is born w/ fundy tendencies or not. Good question. I have two other siblings, so three kids growing up in the household. Sibling number 1 has the fundy leanings we grew up learning about. Sibling number 2 is moderate and laid back in belief (could have something to do w/ his very gorgeous and somewhat religious SO, though.) I am the black sheep, constantly questioning, always looking for answers. Also, I would add that situational circumstances can fuel fundamentalism. For instance, we had two cases of nearly fatal, chronic illness in our family. I have no doubt our church habits would have been different had we all been healthy. Again, fear feeding fear.
Jar and Fordama chatted a bit about fundamentalism vs fanaticism. I posted the definitions I found at dictionary.com for each word. Fanatics don’t require a religion (ever been to a MLM meeting? Then you know what I mean. J ) Fundamentalism can be a channel through which fanaticism moves, but so can lots of things, kinda like the example Atlas brought up about smokers. Speaking of Atlas, he talked about the ‘terrain of discussion.’ While this is a bit different from his earlier posts in which he said you can’t reason w/ fundies, I’d be interested in seeing what else he has to say on the subject, like if he’s done this, how he opened the discussion, where it led, etc…(If you’re willing, of course. If not, you’re 100% free to tell me to buggar off.
Graham said, “Dump the crap and keep the good bits, in other words.”
An excellent piece of advice and can apply to many areas of life, I’m sure!
Critical thinking ain’t easy. Screw it; I’m joining evil dave’s purple squiddy worship. ;D