You seem stuck on the idea of measuring the amount of mercury "remaining" in an amalgam after use for a number of years. But that won't give you any useful data, because not all of the minute amount of mercury given off is even absorbed. For some reason you make the assumption that all mercury is (1)completely inhaled, (2)completely absorbed and (3)completely bound by the tissues.
Given the fact that the vapor is in the mouth, and we exhale as much as inhale, that would cut the amount inhaled by half (roughly). Not all of the vapor is absorbed by the lungs, and is exhaled. And that that is absorbed is partly excreted.
The easiest and best way to measure mercury absorption is looking at things like blood plasma levels and excretion via urine samples. We have a very good selection of subjects to measure these things. Placing an amalgam and pulling the tooth and remeasuing it a decade or longer is an unnecessarily difficult test to perform and won't answer any of the relevant questions.
No I am not making any of the assumptions as you state, except as limiting cases to establish bounds on the toxicity. The bounds are established by first measuring the difference between what Hg went into the filling, and what is in there after a known period of time, and then assuming that all that was missing was absorbed. If this amount is not even a toxic dose, then no worries. If it is a toxic dose, that does not mean real danger necessarily, it just means more modeling is needed to establish what is the dose.
I was taking my cue from what you said that all the mercury stays in the filling but now you seem to be backtracking from that. Perhaps enough is given off then to possibly cause toxicity were it well absorbed?
I would guess or at least consider that possibly 1) the amount given off is not constant in time, and especially is probably much larger around the time of placement; and 2) the rate of absorption varies with the rate of leaching or evaporation, and whether the mechanism is leaching or evaporation or both.
For example, in the case of leaching, at a very low rate say, how do we rule out that bacteria in the mouth aren't converting it into methylmercury? Even with evaporation, if you are breathing through your nose, how do you establish that the mercury is not being reabsorbed into tissues in the mouth?
Also you tacitly imply that some of the mercury has leached out of the filling and into the tooth so to make the measurement we would have to pull the tooth. (So it could be done to cadavers.) This also goes against your claim that I should not worry because it's all bound up in the amalgam and raises the issue of whether it stays in the tooth or not. BTW, that it discolors the tooth due to migration is one of the reasons given on the cosmetic dentistry sites for getting plastic fillings.
Throughout this I have never said that I believed amalgam fillings are clearly a health threat that should be banned, or anything of the sort. I just said I was not personally convinced of their safety and that rather than worry about it I chose to get an alternative. Although I have discovered I had a few misconceptions about the whole process, my basic opinion has not changed that much and probably can't unless I spent a lot of time actually reading and researching the studies and their methodologies and so forth and that would take me far afield and be a lot of work and involve developing new areas of expertise and so forth and certainly I am not going to do that. My experience is that many if not most scientific or technological papers are flawed at one level or another if you look at them closely enough. They may still be basically correct but not always. Peer review is not perfect.
I am also pragmatic so even if there is some danger associated with them I would be weighing it against the dangers of the alternatives. Similarly in the case of vaccines, Jenny McCarthy notwithstanding, we know vaccines have some inherent danger (not of autism but of weird or allergic reactions and in the case of live polio vaccines (which I know are not used much anymore if at all) of acutally imparting the disease) but not using them is clearly more dangerous. So I am among the first in line getting my flu shot every year and I will be getting the H1N1 shot as soon as I can (assuming I don't get the H1N1 flu first), and if I ever have kids they will be getting them as well.
So, rather than say, as you appear to be saying, that even if there is some small danger to, say, children (because for obvious reasons they need more caution than Alzheimer's patients) we need to keep using them indefinitely because there is no reasonable alternative in that cohort, perhaps we might direct some research resources to developing safer alternatives, if the danger cannot be ruled out categorically.