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False allegations and attrition

"no matter how ****faced the other person is, if you get a "yes" out of them, and if they voluntarily got ****faced, then goforit!!"



Yup, I would say that's a pretty fair call. I'm sick of people who get themselves in utterly stupid situations by behaving irresponsibly, and then expect everyone else to fix it for them. If you decide to take drugs or get drunk, and then do something stupid while under the influence, tough biscuits. Maybe next time you'll think before getting trashed. I have zero sympathy for people like that.
 
I am having another moment of frustration realising that the views of others just do not really shift
And yours? Or are your views the correct ones?

"...and the sun was in your eyes, ahh, the ego" --God to Bruce
 
Francesca R said:
and since it appears that some people seem to think that anything short of two totally sober people with a written and witnessed contract isn't consent
Such as who? Or is this an assertion from paranoia?

Let’s take a look at the evidence:

Ah, so your defence would be ignorance or incompetence?

"How was I supposed to know the 8 vodkas and 3 tequilas she drank impaired her judgment?"
If a person is drunk he/she does *not* have all his/her faculties.
So as long as it's a talkative drunk you have sex with it's not rape?
If that talkative drunk says yes they want sex, or even instigates it, why should that be considered rape?
If a talkative drunk asks for a tattoo, should the tattooist do what they ask?
Going along with the decisions of a drunk is no defence.

I think the consent of a drunk person, be it verbal or written, should not be relied upon to perform actions on them which may be considered assault, unless there is a very compelling reason to do so.
 
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Yup, I would say that's a pretty fair call. I'm sick of people who get themselves in utterly stupid situations by behaving irresponsibly, and then expect everyone else to fix it for them. If you decide to take drugs or get drunk, and then do something stupid while under the influence, tough biscuits. Maybe next time you'll think before getting trashed. I have zero sympathy for people like that.

Hmmmm. And what about this man, who is in fear of false allegation, and who voluntarily has sex with a woman he knows to be drunk? I am rather sick of these people who get themselves in utterly stupid situations by behaving irresponsibly and then expect everyone else to fix it for them.
 
I am of the opinion that a case should not go to trial until the Police have a fairly robust case, and the majority of cases should end in a conviction.
Cases are tried when the prosecutors believe there is a better than 50% probability of conviction. That is a majority (ex-ante).

Crimes should be investigated before they reach the court house.
I don't understand this at all. They are. And by the same token, they should not be tried (e.g. by police or solicitors) before they reach a court house.

The nature of rape cases is unfortunately that there won't be many convictions. I don't think anything can actually be done about that, at least until we have some sort of legally robust mind-reading method.
Things have been "done about that"--these have already been brought up on this and its sibling thread. Maybe you think there is no room for improvement. Maybe you think that the system is already tilted excessively towards rape reporters and against alleged assailants.

Police should drop or hold cases that they cannot build strong cases for, and focus on the cases they have a good case for. This serves several positives:

1) Less rape victims will have to go through the ordeal of a trial only to have the offender walk free.
The system is doing a rape victim no "favour" by refusing to try a case because it won't succeed. So I would not describe it as a "positive" to say "We are not pursuing your case, sorry" relative to "We tried but failed".
Another measure that should be implemented is that name suppression for both the accused and victims in sexual assault cases should be mandatory. The stigma and frenzy that surrounds sexual assault cases is brutally harmful to both innocently accused people and genuine victims, and does not serve any benefit to society. It's also a major reason many victims never come forward.
There are some valid reasons for defendant anonymity but there are much stronger ones for identity to be made known which are a vital benefit to society. Open justice pretty much requires it. If people are convicted by the state (or tried then acquitted) and you never find out who they are, that is a route to police-state secrecy and "disappearances". It is the standard for identities to be disclosed, as it is for witnesses too. But sexual offences, (and offences involving children) are a special case where anonymity for the complainant is brought back in. Contrary to what you say, rape reports would undoubtedly plummet if this was abolished.

As I said--I do see the reason for defendant anonymity, and it is also stronger than for crimes less abhorrent to society. But notwithstanding that there are much more powerful reasons IMO for no anonmity, once a person has been charged of a criminal offence by the state.

Several sexual assault cases have actually been dismissed in New Zealand because the media frenzy pre-trial was so intense the judge ruled it was impossible to build an impartial jury.
And here too.
 
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Hmmmm. And what about this man, who is in fear of false allegation, and who voluntarily has sex with a woman he knows to be drunk? I am rather sick of these people who get themselves in utterly stupid situations by behaving irresponsibly and then expect everyone else to fix it for them.

While I agree with you in principle, Fiona, couldn't the man simply say he didn't think she was that drunk? If he is honest, shouldn't he be exonerated regardless of how drunk the woman actually was?
This forces the law to prove intent, which means unless he bragged earlier in the night that he was going to go score a drunk chick he is innocent!
I don't see how the prosecutor could say "you should have known better" because there is no clear line between sober and drunk.
 
I find this a little rude really. You know nothing about me, but you presume to do so.
No that was not what I was doing. I asked what law you wanted and suggested one. That is not a comment about your own preferences nor was it a question about them. Sorry you took it that way--it was not meant.

I want to make sure that cases like Mr Bree's don't keep happening, that innocent people don't end up losing months if not years in jail, their jobs and more, and have a rapist tag stuck to them for the rest of their lives because of a stupid one-night stand that then ends up being regretted and turned into a rape. I want the law to be able to define and deal with real rapists like a tonne of bricks being dropped from a very high height while the innocent accused don't have their lives ruined.

Yes this is fairly representative of a viewpoint I frequently hear from men. I guess we have gone over and over it a lot on these threads and all I can really say again is that I find it very odd and (depressingly) unhelpful. It swerves back to the idea that rape is the kind of super-aggressive uber-crime that is at once obvious and crying out for venal retribution, and that the more run of the mill incidents should all be re-defined away as silly mistakes*.

*This is not a comment on R v Bree, and I know your post was. I am not attributing the above viewpoint to you even though I used your quote.
 
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I guess we have gone over and over it a lot on these threads and all I can really say again is that I find it very odd and (depressingly) unhelpful. It swerves back to the idea that rape is the kind of super-aggressive uber-crime that is at once obvious and crying out for venal retribution, and that the more run of the mill incidents should all be re-defined away as silly mistakes.
I don't think your charachterization is accurate. I think it is a legitimate concern and shouldn't be dismissed. That someone voices a concern doesn't mean that anyone is swerving to anything.

BTW: The Duke Lacrosse rape case demonstrated so well how an alegation of rape can really **** up one's life.

Raps is a very serious, harmful and violent offense and thankfully society views the crime as extremly heinous because it can and oftend does inflict so much harm to the victim including long lasting emotional scars.

Because society views rape as the serious and violent offense that it is it gives power to those who would make a false allegation. It's sad that some people have to screw it up for others by making false allegations.
 
Rapse is a very serious, harmful and violent offense and thankfully society views the crime as extremly heinous.
Rape is not always a "violent" crime. This is important too. It is because the stereotypical image of rape is a violent one involving brutal physical force, that so much "non violent" rape is in danger of being viewed as non-serious, and avoidable if only the victim behaved differently. "Non violent rape" is still a gross and abhorrent violation of another person and a crime of the utmost seriousness.
 
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Rape is not always a "violent" crime. This is important too. It is because the stereotypical image of rape is a violent one involving brutal physical force, that so much "non violent" rape is in danger of being viewed as non-serious, and avoidable if only the victim behaved differently. "Non violent rape" is still a gross and abhorrent violation of another person and a crime of the utmost seriousness.
That's not what I meant by "violent". Even if there is no physical or verbal violence beyond the act itself it is often seen as violent by victims and victims advocates including prosecutors and the police.

"Rape is an act of violence - not sex."

It's arguable but I'm willing to accept that it is both violent and an act of sex regardless.
 
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While I agree with you in principle, Fiona, couldn't the man simply say he didn't think she was that drunk? If he is honest, shouldn't he be exonerated regardless of how drunk the woman actually was?
This forces the law to prove intent, which means unless he bragged earlier in the night that he was going to go score a drunk chick he is innocent!
I don't see how the prosecutor could say "you should have known better" because there is no clear line between sober and drunk.


No. The "honest belief" provision is in process of being abolished here for very good reason. But that is a bit beside the point I was making, actually.

I do not think it is a question of degree. I think that the prudent thing to do is not to sleep with anyone who is not a regular partner if they have been drinking. I see absolutely no reason why these men should wish to put themselves at risk like that when they are so fearful of allegations: and in fact I see no reason for doing it even if they are not fearful. Just as with driving over the limit, it is no excuse to say you could not tell you were over: you only had 2 pints. Why is this a difficult idea? Though there is an objective measure in the breathalyser for drink driving most people do not actually use a breathalyser in deciding whether and how much to drink if they are driving: sensible folk don't do it at all. How is this different?
 
I see absolutely no reason why these men should wish to put themselves at risk like that when they are so fearful of allegations: and in fact I see no reason for doing it even if they are not fearful.
"Reason"? I see no reason for pre-teens and teens to have sex. I see no reason for infidelity. I see no reason for promiscuity. I seen no reason for an increase in libidinous behavior following rape or sexual assault. The safest way to avoid STD's and pregnancy is to be celibate but that reason doesn't translate into any increase in celibacy.

Your right of course but I'm affraid that you are right only in theory. I'm not sure human sexuality is really that amenable to reason. Telling people not to have sex, in any situation, hasn't seemed to have any effect in real life.
 
I think the consent of a drunk person, be it verbal or written, should not be relied upon to perform actions on them which may be considered assault, unless there is a very compelling reason to do so.

So basically only sober people are allowed to have sex and anything else is rape. If that is the case, I think we had better lock up about 90% of the western world, because I imagine that the only ones to have never had sex while drunk are the virgins and the tea-totallers. Of course, I am a bit worried about those of us in those categories because we are going to face a rather hefty tax bill to pay for the incarceration of the rest of you.
 
Hmmmm. And what about this man, who is in fear of false allegation, and who voluntarily has sex with a woman he knows to be drunk? I am rather sick of these people who get themselves in utterly stupid situations by behaving irresponsibly and then expect everyone else to fix it for them.

I'd suggest that any sober male who truly "is in fear of false allegation" but "voluntarily has sex with a woman he knows to be drunk" is an idiot. That's like someone who is scared of heights climbing up an old, rickety ladder.

Cases are tried when the prosecutors believe there is a better than 50% probability of conviction. That is a majority (ex-ante).

To be honest, taking a case to court when there is only a 50-50 chance is dumb, if you lose and then more evidence turns up, you're screwed, you can't retry it. Surely it's better to wait till you have a 75-80% chance of conviction than to go early and hope for the best.

I don't understand this at all. They are. And by the same token, they should not be tried (e.g. by police or solicitors) before they reach a court house.

I think what Gumboot was trying to say is that the Police should investigate the matter to a point where they convinced that the evidence shows that the crime was committed and that the person charged is guilty beyond reasonable doubt. That means that when it goes to trial, the jury should also see that the evidence proves guilt beyond reasonable doubt. We shouldn't be saying "Well we're think there's a 51% chance he's guilty, but let's let a jury sort it out."

The system is doing a rape victim no "favour" by refusing to try a case because it won't succeed. So I would not describe it as a "positive" to say "We are not pursuing your case, sorry" relative to "We tried but failed".

While I have to admit I have been in neither person's shoes, I'd suspect that while it'd still be devastating to have the police say "Look we believe you, but we know that there isn't enough evidence to convict if we go to trial right now, but we'll keep looking at your case and try to get there," it'd be way better than having the person you know did it get off scott free and loudly proclaim you as a liar to the world simply because there wasn't enough evidence but the police went forward with the case anyway. Having said that, the victim should have a say, if the police inform them that they don't believe proceeding at the current time would be advisable, but the victims says they want to, then do it, then if the case fails, the victim can only blame themselves.

There are some valid reasons for defendant anonymity but there are much stronger ones for identity to be made known which are a vital benefit to society. Open justice pretty much requires it. If people are convicted by the state (or tried then acquitted) and you never find out who they are, that is a route to police-state secrecy and "disappearances". It is the standard for identities to be disclosed, as it is for witnesses too. But sexual offences, (and offences involving children) are a special case where anonymity for the complainant is brought back in. Contrary to what you say, rape reports would undoubtedly plummet if this was abolished.

I doubt they would plummet if name suppression were kept. I think that in this sort of case where the defendant is pretty much considered by the public as guilty even if found not guilty, that name suppression should apply until a guilty verdict is given, then they can release the name publicly.

As I said--I do see the reason for defendant anonymity, and it is also stronger than for crimes less abhorrent to society. But notwithstanding that there are much more powerful reasons IMO for no anonmity, once a person has been charged of a criminal offence by the state.

The only reason I can see for giving the name is other victims might come forward with complaints, but if the system we want to see has 95% or more of victims coming forward anyway, that would likely remove this need too

No that was not what I was doing. I asked what law you wanted and suggested one. That is not a comment about your own preferences nor was it a question about them. Sorry you took it that way--it was not meant.

Fair enough. Want I want from the law is a something that is consistent so people know exactly where they stand. I sort of hate the idea of a BAC level for consent like we do for driving, but at least with that sort of measure people would know where they were, otherwise we have everything from Ivor who seems to stand at any drinking = not able to consent, to the ruthless members of society who think that if they get a mummer out of an unconscious drunk that means it good to go. The answer has to be somewhere between the two and while it might be like nailing jello to the wall, until it is done a lot of lives are going to keep getting screwed up.

Yes this is fairly representative of a viewpoint I frequently hear from men. I guess we have gone over and over it a lot on these threads and all I can really say again is that I find it very odd and (depressingly) unhelpful. It swerves back to the idea that rape is the kind of super-aggressive uber-crime that is at once obvious and crying out for venal retribution, and that the more run of the mill incidents should all be re-defined away as silly mistakes*.

*This is not a comment on R v Bree, and I know your post was. I am not attributing the above viewpoint to you even though I used your quote.

I'm glad you put the disclaimer in because this isn't what I was getting at, at all. When I say "a silly one night stand that is then regretted" I'm not talking about the man regretting it, but the woman (or really I should say the alleged victim because I guess though rare it could go the other way too.)

I know you hate scenarios but try to follow with it. Imagine a guy and a girl out on the town, clubbing, drinking. They meet up, get on well and end up going back to her place where they do a lot of fondling and finally leapt into bed, all with apparent consent on both sides.

Now the next morning, after he's gone, she starts to feel a bit regretful, maybe she has a boyfriend off in Iraq or somewhere, she rings a friend.

"Oh I did something really stupid last night, I went clubbing and got drunk and brought a guy home, I don't know what I was thinking, and now I feel really awful."

How hard is it to go from there to the friend convincing her that because she was drunk it was rape?

Apparently not very hard because it happens. Yet from the guy's POV everything that happened was totally consensual. This is what I am talking about when I say "stupid one-night stands."

What I am not talking about is the drunk guy that finds a girl passed out in the hallway, gets her to her feet and the nearest bed and has his way with her, that's rape quite pure and simply, even if in the morning he regrets it and thinks it was a "silly mistake." I'm meaning where there is clear and obvious consent, even when it's drunk consent.

Rape is not always a "violent" crime. This is important too. It is because the stereotypical image of rape is a violent one involving brutal physical force, that so much "non violent" rape is in danger of being viewed as non-serious, and avoidable if only the victim behaved differently. "Non violent rape" is still a gross and abhorrent violation of another person and a crime of the utmost seriousness.

Going to have to disagree because personally I think that a violation of another person even if it doesn't involve injury or force, is still a form of violence.

No. The "honest belief" provision is in process of being abolished here for very good reason. But that is a bit beside the point I was making, actually.

I do not think it is a question of degree. I think that the prudent thing to do is not to sleep with anyone who is not a regular partner if they have been drinking. I see absolutely no reason why these men should wish to put themselves at risk like that when they are so fearful of allegations: and in fact I see no reason for doing it even if they are not fearful. Just as with driving over the limit, it is no excuse to say you could not tell you were over: you only had 2 pints. Why is this a difficult idea? Though there is an objective measure in the breathalyser for drink driving most people do not actually use a breathalyser in deciding whether and how much to drink if they are driving: sensible folk don't do it at all. How is this different?

Because it's a total reverse of social norms. Most people that "hook up" have been out socialising and being out socialising mean they've been drinking. Essentially what you propose turns every single case of a one night stand into a rape.
 
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Hmmmm. And what about this man, who is in fear of false allegation, and who voluntarily has sex with a woman he knows to be drunk? I am rather sick of these people who get themselves in utterly stupid situations by behaving irresponsibly and then expect everyone else to fix it for them.

What's your point?
 
Cases are tried when the prosecutors believe there is a better than 50% probability of conviction. That is a majority (ex-ante).

I think the threshold for prosecution should be higher.


I don't understand this at all. They are. And by the same token, they should not be tried (e.g. by police or solicitors) before they reach a court house.

They're not though. With hastily advanced prosecution cases too often basic evidence only emerges at trial - evidence the police should have uncovered during their investigation.


Things have been "done about that"--these have already been brought up on this and its sibling thread. Maybe you think there is no room for improvement. Maybe you think that the system is already tilted excessively towards rape reporters and against alleged assailants.

There's two different systems in play here. One is the judicial system, and at least in this country it appears to be doing its job. The other is the prosecution system, and given the high number of weak rape cases that go to trial in this country it appears not to be functioning properly.


The system is doing a rape victim no "favour" by refusing to try a case because it won't succeed. So I would not describe it as a "positive" to say "We are not pursuing your case, sorry" relative to "We tried but failed".

That's only relevant if the case is closed as unsolved. I have no problem with the police keeping rape cases open indefinitely until they have a robust case. I think that's the most effective way in which the police can provide victims with justice.


There are some valid reasons for defendant anonymity but there are much stronger ones for identity to be made known which are a vital benefit to society. Open justice pretty much requires it. If people are convicted by the state (or tried then acquitted) and you never find out who they are, that is a route to police-state secrecy and "disappearances".

You cannot be serious. That's a pathetic excuse for not granting name suppression. Do you have any real justification for not granting name suppression? Besides, I never suggested name suppression should be maintained indefinitely.


But sexual offences, (and offences involving children) are a special case where anonymity for the complainant is brought back in. Contrary to what you say, rape reports would undoubtedly plummet if this was abolished.

Care to cite where I claimed anything "contrary"? I've never suggested that rape victims should have their identity disclosed. In fact I suggested name suppression for victims should be mandatory.


As I said--I do see the reason for defendant anonymity, and it is also stronger than for crimes less abhorrent to society. But notwithstanding that there are much more powerful reasons IMO for no anonmity, once a person has been charged of a criminal offence by the state.

So what are they? I'm all ears.
 
No. The "honest belief" provision is in process of being abolished here for very good reason. But that is a bit beside the point I was making, actually.

I do not think it is a question of degree. I think that the prudent thing to do is not to sleep with anyone who is not a regular partner if they have been drinking. I see absolutely no reason why these men should wish to put themselves at risk like that when they are so fearful of allegations: and in fact I see no reason for doing it even if they are not fearful. Just as with driving over the limit, it is no excuse to say you could not tell you were over: you only had 2 pints. Why is this a difficult idea? Though there is an objective measure in the breathalyser for drink driving most people do not actually use a breathalyser in deciding whether and how much to drink if they are driving: sensible folk don't do it at all. How is this different?



Since when was having sex with a drunk person illegal? :confused:

Your analogy sucks.
 
So basically only sober people are allowed to have sex and anything else is rape. If that is the case, I think we had better lock up about 90% of the western world, because I imagine that the only ones to have never had sex while drunk are the virgins and the tea-totallers. Of course, I am a bit worried about those of us in those categories because we are going to face a rather hefty tax bill to pay for the incarceration of the rest of you.



Ha! I am neither a virgin, nor a Tea-totaller, and I have never had sex while drunk. I look forward to mocking all you convicted quasi-rapists.
 

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