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False allegations and attrition

Going along with the decisions of a drunk is no defence.

I don't see the relevence of this example, to your position anyway, the people were drunk and still required to take responsibility for their actions. The fact that the passenger was also held responsible is unusual, but there are instances in British law where the owner of a vehicle is held responsible for the uses to which it is put even if they themselves are not driving, unfortuanetly the article is not very detailed. Are you arguing that Mr Nichols should not have been convicted as he was drunk and therefore not compitent to give his consent for Ms Butres to drive his car?

Anyway, this is a markedly different situation, the alcohol and speed limits were exceeded, whether Ms Butres' driving ability or decision making processes were impared or whether she always drove at that speed and the accident would still likely have happened if she had been sober are neither discussed in the article or relevant, she broke specific laws and being drunk was no defense.

Having sex, or having sex while under the influence of alcohol, are not inherently illegal acts (in this country anyway) , in countries with laws more directly related to individuals sexuality (such as Iran) I doubt that being drunk would be considered a defense either...
 
That depends on his worldview, but potentially, yes.

So whether someone was a victim of sexual assault depends on their worldview? Wether someone is guilty of a crime is dependent on the worldview of the supposed victim? Not the actual facts relevant to the case nor even the law?

Keep in mind, he is the one who willingly impaired his judgement, and as far as the woman is concerned, he gave his consent. If you believe that scenario constitutes sexual assault, is there a specific blood alcohol content threshold beyond which a person cannot give consent?
Not that I know of. Why is it relevant?

Here's why it is relevant:
So as long as it's a talkative drunk you have sex with it's not rape?
If a person is incapable of making an informed chioce you should not be taking advantage of this incapacity, however it came about.

How is someone supposed to determine whether someone else is capable of making an informed choice? How is someone supposed to know that the person they are having sex with, who consented to have sex with them, is not capable of making that choice? That's an awful lot of responsibility to put on someone, to claim that they are guilty of rape because they didn't ask for recent breathalizer results from the person who consents to have sex with them.

I think we may be talking about different things here; you seem to be approaching this from a perspective of morality whereas I'm approaching it from a perspective of legality. Of course someone who knowingly takes advantage of a drunk person to have sex is an ass. For me, the question was whether it can be defined as sexual assault. Being an ass is not a crime. Nor is it rape.


You seem to have missed that I never said persuaded to have sex....

I addressed this in the very post you quoted.
If you are persuaded to go to someone's apartment and persuaded to have sex, no it is not "his fault", at least not legally or morally. You have just as much culpability as he does...it was a consensual act.

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If he slips something into your drink without your knowledge, that is completely different. If you voluntarily get drunk/stoned/wasted and pass out, and he takes advantage of that to have sex with you while you are passed out, that again is different.

This is not correct. By getting drunk and going back to someone's apartment, someone is not giving their consent to sexual penetration. That you might think otherwise is another example of unreasonable and flawed attitudes.

↑ Read the above. I never claimed that anyone was giving their consent to sex merely by agreeing to go to another person's home.

The point PhantomWolf is making is valid, volentarily incapacity doesn't absolve you from responsibility for your decisions. If I get drunk and a friend (drunk or sober) persuades me to drive, I would be the drunk driver, not them, and if I killed someone as a result I would face the consequences. What if two drunk peple have consensual sex and both regret it afterwards, who prosecutes who?

The situation you are talking about is different, you are refering to a situation where the victim is unable to communicate their decision and as such is not a part of the decision making process. This is completely different and I would agree 100% that a crime had been commited.

Summery-:

Bad decision made by intoxicated party and later regretted- Their fault
Decision made independantly of victim- Rape

Exactly.
 
How is someone supposed to determine whether someone else is capable of making an informed choice? How is someone supposed to know that the person they are having sex with, who consented to have sex with them, is not capable of making that choice? That's an awful lot of responsibility to put on someone, to claim that they are guilty of rape because they didn't ask for recent breathalizer results from the person who consents to have sex with them.
Oh right. The responsibility to meet the sensibility of a reasonable person. That you think it is "too much" is bizzare.

Read the above. I never claimed that anyone was giving their consent to sex merely by agreeing to go to another person's home.
Yes, you did and I quoted you. You gender-swapped the scenario from the earlier post by Darat.
 
Oh right. The responsibility to meet the sensibility of a reasonable person. That you think it is "too much" is bizzare.

What I find bizarre is 1) the belief that someone is not responsible for their own actions and decisions if they voluntarily get drunk, and 2) if people are NOT held accountable for their actions while intoxicated, the belief that this wouldn't be a nightmare in a courtroom if you use a "reasonable person" standard.

What evidence, beyond the testimony of the victim and defendent, would be presented to prove that a "reasonable person" would find the alleged victim to be incompetent? That is why I asked earlier if you needed to know the BAC of a potential sexual partner: a factual, objective measure of intoxication. We already run into he said/she said problems with non forcible rape over the issue of consent. You want to compound those problems by making consent itself insufficient? I'd really hate to be a rich, male celebrity if that was the legal standard. There isn't even something as subjective and broad as a "reasonable person" judgement in the case of drunk driving; those laws are defined in each state by an objective BAC level instead of a subjective impairment measurement.

If you would like to change the law so that someone who is drunk is considered incompetent to make decisions for themselves, would you apply it in all cases, or only in cases related to consent to have sex? We don't apply those standards in any other area of the law: if you are drunk when you sign a contract, you are still legally bound by that contract. If you go to a store with a no returns policy and buy $2000 worth of Hannah Montana clothing while drunk, they have no legal obligation to void the sale at your later request. If you are drunk when you father a child, you are still accountable for child support for 18 years. If you are drunk when you decide to drive your car, you are still ciminally liable. If you are drunk when you commit a crime, you are not absolved because you weren't "competent" to make a decision for yourself. It doesn't matter how drunk you are or whether a reasonable person would construe you to be "incompetent", if you voluntarily became drunk, you are still responsible for your actions.

What I find ironic is that drunk driving would be a crime that could be prosecuted if the perp is slightly drunk, but not if they are completely hammered.

Yes, you did and I quoted you. You gender-swapped the scenario from the earlier post by Darat.

I'll have to just chalk that up to a misunderstanding. Nowhere in that scenario did I see anything that stated the sex was unconsenting, and I did not read it to imply as much. The passage I was addressing was itself ambiguous in that regard. I did address sex while passed out in a previous post. If a person has sex with someone who is passed out, that is clearly rape.
 
No that is not stated in the scenario. Legally it can not be reasonably assumed either.

Generally assumption means something not stated in the senario doesn't it?

No difference. The fact that person B might be too temporarily impaired to be believed to reasonably give consent means that consent is not given. If person A is also too temporarily impaired to be able to judge this one way or the other is no defence. I would have thought that would be obvious.

Why should Person A be charged when Person B isn't. If both consented while too drunk to give consent, then surely both are as guilty as the other.

A jury decides "Whether a belief is reasonable is to be determined having regard to all the circumstances, including any steps A has taken to ascertain whether B consents."

So what we need to do if have a blood alcohol test kit for determining that both partners are below some unknown level of drunkness, a psychiatric report on both partners to make sure they are mentally able to give consent, and a signed and witnesses contract between the partners declaring consent, before anything can happen. Cool.
 
If two drunk drivers crash into each other, who is the guilty party?

Presumably, neither of them wanted to be crashed into, even at the time. They were just too drunk to avoid a crash. So, each is guilty of crashing into the other.

That situation seems different from two drunk people who do want to have sex with each other, but who, for whatever reason, wouldn't have wanted to, had they been sober.
 
Again from the UK Act:
1 Rape
(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—
(a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis,
(b) B does not consent to the penetration, and
(c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.

That's fine, but it doesn't clarify, one way or the other, what "consent" means. Does "B consents" mean "B agrees to it at the time" or does it mean something like "B would have agreed, had B been sober"?

If B does consent, so that part (b) isn't satisfied, the question of A's reasonable belief, in part (c), never even arises.

It seems you are taking it for granted that someone who's drunk can't consent, by definition. Do I understand you correctly?
 
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How is someone supposed to determine whether someone else is capable of making an informed choice?

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Ah, so your defence would be ignorance or incompetence?

"How was I supposed to know the 8 vodkas and 3 tequilas she drank impaired her judgment?"
 
I feel the following need to be responded to:
If a person is drunk he/she does *not* have all his/her faculties.

No difference. The fact that person B might be too temporarily impaired to be believed to reasonably give consent means that consent is not given. If person A is also too temporarily impaired to be able to judge this one way or the other is no defence. I would have thought that would be obvious.

Going along with the decisions of a drunk is no defence.

Based upon the logic used in the above quotes, my SO and I are guilty of raping each other numerous times and should both be locked up in prison for life. My parents are guilty of raping each other, so are my grand parents, and all the couples I know (except for one couple that don't drink at all, ever, let alone to excess).

As such, I feel arguing that the mere presence of inebriation makes a sexual encounter rape is ludicrous beyond belief.

The ultimate question is this: What kind of person takes advantage of another's impaired decision making?
I do. So does my SO. So do most couples. We take advantage of each other's lack of inhibitions to have more fun than we normally might. Does that make it rape? No. Most definitely no.

Just the presence of inebriation does not make a sexual encounter nonconsensual. There has to be way more than that involved. The subject is simply far to subjective to be defined in such black and white terms.
 
Ah, so your defence would be ignorance or incompetence?

"How was I supposed to know the 8 vodkas and 3 tequilas she drank impaired her judgment?"

You're making two assumptions here.

a) That they know how much the other had to drink
and b) That they are sobber enough to realise the other isn't sobber.

Besides, some people can still be fully with it after 8 vodkas, while others aren't after one, how are you supposed to know.
 
What I find bizarre is 1) the belief that someone is not responsible for their own actions and decisions if they voluntarily get drunk
That isn't the belief though. Neither is that the law or the intent of the law. The issue is that if there is sufficient evidence that person B is not able to communicate* that person B consents, then person A is regarded in law as to not be able to reasonably believe that person B has consented. Therefore person A does not have consent to sexually penetrate person B

*UK law says "due to person B's physical disability". This can include voluntary intoxication.

2) if people are NOT held accountable for their actions while intoxicated, the belief that this wouldn't be a nightmare in a courtroom if you use a "reasonable person" standard.
You have it confused. It is person A's actions that person A is accountable for. Person A must reasonably believe that person B has actively given consent. A reasonable person test is used throughout UK law. I am less familiar with other juristictions.

The reason for a reasonable person test (which to me sounds like so much common sense) is that a huge number of criminal cases--not just sexual offences--would not be viable if juries had to rely on physical evidence, and yet juries routinely can and do reach verdicts on witness testimony. It is one of the primary reasons for the existence of jury trials. As I have said before, witness testimony, and defendant testimony is the primary form of direct evidence in a UK criminal trial. Physical or forensic evidence is subordinate to it because it is almost always circumstantial. What I am hearing from you and others is some level of aversion to that ordering of importance, and I am somewhat mystified by it. It is almost as if you think it is somehow the antithesis of "sceptical". It is not at all.

What evidence, beyond the testimony of the victim and defendent, would be presented to prove that a "reasonable person" would find the alleged victim to be incompetent? That is why I asked earlier if you needed to know the BAC of a potential sexual partner: a factual, objective measure of intoxication. We already run into he said/she said problems with non forcible rape over the issue of consent. You want to compound those problems by making consent itself insufficient?
It is not merely what I want to do--it is what the law wants to do.

I'd really hate to be a rich, male celebrity if that was the legal standard.
It already is the legal standard.

There isn't even something as subjective and broad as a "reasonable person" judgement in the case of drunk driving; those laws are defined in each state by an objective BAC level instead of a subjective impairment measurement.
Correct. "Reasonable person" is deemed unnecessary in the case of drunk driving. Or rather, the state defines it for juries by an objective blood-alcohol content measure.

If you would like to change the law so that someone who is drunk is considered incompetent to make decisions for themselves, would you apply it in all cases, or only in cases related to consent to have sex?
I am not changing the law. The law exists. The law is still, however--as it will always be--open to interpretation by judges. The law is not black and white no matter (actually because of) how many acts and amendments are passed and no matter (actually because of) how many ruling case precedents are judged.

Now it is also true that the "too drunk to consent" idea in law itself does have recent precedents of ruling against the complainant. There was a case in the UK [R v Dougal (Swansea--2005)] where a male student was acquitted at the judge's direction that "drunken consent is still consent". But this was later followed by a government sponsored campaign to have this legal principle clarified, and a Home Office "stocktake" of the 2003 Sexual Offences Act (in early 2006) referred to this case as one where there "the matters could not properly have been put to a jury"

We don't apply those standards in any other area of the law: if you are drunk when you sign a contract, you are still legally bound by that contract. If you go to a store with a no returns policy and buy $2000 worth of Hannah Montana clothing while drunk, they have no legal obligation to void the sale at your later request. If you are drunk when you father a child, you are still accountable for child support for 18 years. If you are drunk when you decide to drive your car, you are still ciminally liable. If you are drunk when you commit a crime, you are not absolved because you weren't "competent" to make a decision for yourself. It doesn't matter how drunk you are or whether a reasonable person would construe you to be "incompetent", if you voluntarily became drunk, you are still responsible for your actions.
So what? You are suggesting that the law for sexual offences should be no different from contract and tort law in all other areas? If that is what you think I will not be able to reach you. That type of thinking is what results in the law grossly failing in the area of sexual offences (and others).

I'll have to just chalk that up to a misunderstanding. Nowhere in that scenario did I see anything that stated the sex was unconsenting, and I did not read it to imply as much. The passage I was addressing was itself ambiguous in that regard.
OK it was a "misunderstanding". But please do not be offended that I am struck by this as it seems central to the thread, and the "divide" evident in this thread and another one. I do not know if Darat intended to outline a scenario in which active consent was conspicuously absent (and thus had to be "presumed" by the assailant). But that is immediately how I read it and it was clear and transparent to me that the scenario contained no active consent. But you and maybe PhantomWolf both read that part as "ambiguous" or "open to assumption" in the realm of consent.

Is this at the heart of the difference between us?
 
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Generally assumption means something not stated in the senario doesn't it?
What are we talking about any more? See my previous post. Assumption of consent is a crucial issue in rape cases. Generally, you can't assume consent unless it is reasonable to do so.

Why should Person A be charged when Person B isn't. If both consented while too drunk to give consent, then surely both are as guilty as the other.
Perhaps you could have an unusual situation where both parties complain that they have been raped yes. But if one complaint is made in direct response to the other, it might slant matters legally. Or perhaps it would result in both cases being dropped. Who knows?

So what we need to do if have a blood alcohol test kit for determining that both partners are below some unknown level of drunkness, a psychiatric report on both partners to make sure they are mentally able to give consent, and a signed and witnesses contract between the partners declaring consent, before anything can happen. Cool.
I read this as "I can't be analytically precise about what a 'reasonable person test' means, therefore I will protest against its lack of black-and-whiteness". Fine I suppose, but where I come from the law is not on your side there. In truth I am surprised as well as saddened at this reaction to it. Again it is as if you think it is anti-sceptical. IMO sceptical people do the method a disservice if they think that reasonableness and common sense should be repealed.
 
Based upon the logic used in the above quotes, my SO and I are guilty of raping each other numerous times and should both be locked up in prison for life. My parents are guilty of raping each other, so are my grand parents, and all the couples I know (except for one couple that don't drink at all, ever, let alone to excess).

As such, I feel arguing that the mere presence of inebriation makes a sexual encounter rape is ludicrous beyond belief.
And yet, amazingly enough, this law exists in the UK to cover sexual offences without the Home Office and the judiciary being bombarded monthly with hundreds of thousands of consensual couples making rape reports against each other because they have read the wording of the Act of Parliament and consequently feel compelled to seek justice for a crime they have just been made aware of.

What are you trying to argue? That it is inconsistent to ever prosecute someone for rape who forces themself sexually on a drunk person, unless the police come arrest you as well? Er, yeah right . . .
 
What are we talking about any more? See my previous post. Assumption of consent is a crucial issue in rape cases. Generally, you can't assume consent unless it is reasonable to do so.

Perhaps you could have an unusual situation where both parties complain that they have been raped yes. But if one complaint is made in direct response to the other, it might slant matters legally. Or perhaps it would result in both cases being dropped. Who knows?

I read this as "I can't be analytically precise about what a 'reasonable person test' means, therefore I will protest against its lack of black-and-whiteness". Fine I suppose, but where I come from the law is not on your side there. In truth I am surprised as well as saddened at this reaction to it. Again it is as if you think it is anti-sceptical. IMO sceptical people do the method a disservice if they think that reasonableness and common sense should be repealed.
While this particular post was not directed at me, I must say that as a skeptic, I have problems with using completely subjective "tests" in such a way as to imply that they are not subjective. What is reasonable to one person is not reasonable to another, and what is common sense to one person is not common sense to another. So, who's definition of reasonable is being used? Who's definition of common sense? If we're going by what the judicial system or government says is reasonable... Well, lets just say that I have very little confidence in the applicability of the definition, as judicial systems and governments are quite often completely unreasonable. Heck, the general population is quite often unreasonable. Take a look at some of the crazy laws that get passed (and subsequently upheld in court) if you want examples.

So when you throw "reasonable" into the mix, a subjective situation is being judged by subjective rules, and we have to hope and pray that the people enforcing those rules see them the same way someone else does. You do realize that is like asking a jury to agree on which shade of blue is the "bluest" just by looking at it, right?
 
And yet, amazingly enough, this law exists in the UK to cover sexual offences without the Home Office and the judiciary being bombarded monthly with hundreds of thousands of consensual couples making rape reports against each other because they have read the wording of the Act of Parliament and consequently feel compelled to seek justice for a crime they have just been made aware of.

What are you trying to argue? That it is inconsistent to ever prosecute someone for rape who forces themself sexually on a drunk person, unless the police come arrest you as well? Er, yeah right . . .
I'm arguing against the sentiment that the existence of inebriation in the situation automatically classifies a sexual encounter as "rape" due to some random, arbitrary, and subjective decision of an uninvolved party.
 
MikeMangum said:
We don't apply those standards in any other area of the law: if you are drunk when you sign a contract, you are still legally bound by that contract.

Not in the uk. In fact drunkeness is specifically referred to as an instance of incapcity such that a contract is not legally enforceable

From wiki:Incapacity
Main article: Capacity (law)
Sometimes the capacity of either natural or artificial persons to either enforce contracts, or have contracts enforced against them is restricted. For instance, very small children may not be held to bargains they have made, or errant employees or directors may be prevented from contracting for their company, because they have acted ultra vires (beyond their power). Another example might be people who are mentally incapacitated, either by disability or drunkenness.[48] When the law limits or bars a person from engaging in specified activities, any agreements or contracts to do so are either voidable or void for incapacity. The law on capacity can serve either a protective function or can be a way of restraining people who act as agents for others.
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I'm arguing against the sentiment that the existence of inebriation in the situation automatically classifies a sexual encounter as "rape" due to some random, arbitrary, and subjective decision of an uninvolved party.
Who ever said it did? The police are not in the habit of arresting one or other spouse and charging them with a sexual offence after having spied on their bedroom circumstances covertly. If nobody makes a complaint about a sexual offence involving adults then there is seldom a prosecution.
 
If we're going by what the judicial system or government says is reasonable... Well, lets just say that I have very little confidence in the applicability of the definition, as judicial systems and governments are quite often completely unreasonable. Heck, the general population is quite often unreasonable.
I can't say that they are always reasonable. But what do you want? Removal of the ability of juries to reach verdicts in all cases where this involves subjective judgement of the testimony of a witness? Total reliance on circumstantial evidence for a criminal trial? (I assume you are not interested in confessions either because they are subjective and could be coerced by an unreasonable law enforcement department)

So when you throw "reasonable" into the mix, a subjective situation is being judged by subjective rules, and we have to hope and pray that the people enforcing those rules see them the same way someone else does. You do realize that is like asking a jury to agree on which shade of blue is the "bluest" just by looking at it, right?
Again, do you want to do away with juries then? And who is it that you are happy to have making judgements on circumstantial evidence?

I am afraid that the system we have is not perfect. I would like to hear from you how it can be made better.
 
I'm arguing against the sentiment that the existence of inebriation in the situation automatically classifies a sexual encounter as "rape" due to some random, arbitrary, and subjective decision of an uninvolved party.

I have not said inebriation automatically classifies a sexual encounter as rape.

PhantomWolf said:
Besides, some people can still be fully with it after 8 vodkas, while others aren't after one, how are you supposed to know.

I disagree anyone can be "fully with it" after consuming 8 vodkas over a period of a few hours. There are plenty of people who think they can, though.
 

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