CriticalThanking
Designated Hitter
I agree there are those for whom your statement is 100% accurate. My unscientific sampling of personal trainers shows 2 different trends for both "gym membership" and sport-specific training. There are many who will only work with a trainer who is a superior representative of fitness/the sport in question.When I was younger, appearance made a difference in my relationships, but now that I'm mwc, the only real motive is to retain professional currency as a personal trainer. It's very difficult for a personal trainer to have credibility if s/he's not at least trim, if not actually buff.
The downside is that most of my training these days has been very sport-focused. The only way to get credentials in a particular sport is to win competitions, but my *other* jobs prevent me from being reliably in town for races, so I have to go for the appearance instead. At least for now.
The second category is primarily the beginner, but in generalization, someone who is non-competitive. It is the person who needs to lose some (perhaps a lot) of weight and relates to someone who is knowlegable, has aerobic and possibly strength fitness, but has excess body fat. Ok - "rounder" or "more average looking" to put it in simple terms. Such instructors can serve as a great role model of someone who is fit (or fitter than average), is regularly active, and still looks like a normal human.
I see a large number of people at triathlons most would never guess to be athletes. Are they in danger of winning a medal? Not a chance in Hell's Kitchen! But they are aerobically fit and have fun doing it. Setting a Personal Record may be important, but that has nothing to do with the body fat % of your coach.
I have 4 "unofficial" tri coaches on my team. Two are competive age-group athletes with impressive physiques. One is a fast swimmer, but is Athena-class (a large woman) and is slow on the bike and run. The 4th is age 65 with bad knees and shoulders. All have completed at least one iron(person) race. It is their ability to work with others, their positive attitudes, and their knowlege of the sport that makes them so popular. Each person will gravitate to a trainer that offers what they are looking for.
And who knows - perhaps your significant other has an opinion about whether or not you are preferred buff or not. Certainly you are preferred healthy.
CriticalThanking