Re: To Kropji
scriptcoc said:
because to be honest all I really wanted out of any of this was a chance to hear the voice of my daughter again...and the voice wouln't even have to say anything specific....its a mom thing....I am not even greieving its been a long time....almost 8 years...so I can imagine that others more close to the event might wander off the deep end if not guided throught this by someone with understanding and compassion.
This statement breaks my heart. As a mother of three (and one miscarriage or I would have had four) I can only imagine how unbearable it would be to lose one of my living children. I feel my only purpose in life is to see these children are brought up in a good home. After that I do not care what happens to me.
I know of some very beneficial grief therapy, feel free to contact me through pm's. Take everything you read from people here with a grain of salt. Most people here will diss everything they can't explain as being "woo-woo" or whatever they call it, yet they haven't even tried what they are trying to diss. Many people who come here do so as an outlet to vent, and they like to ridicule anything they can perceive as "weak" in another person.
Remember this: the less people know about something the stronger their opinions are.
I've worked with a lot of dying people. Right now I am working a home health case that has switched to a hospice case. You can ask any nurse who has worked extensively with dying people and they will agree that there are a lot of very unusual things that happen to that dying person within a few hours of death that no one can explain, and it is definitely a lot more than a trick of the brain. The last dying person I worked with seemed to perk up a little in his last hours. While I was in the room with him I would hear him say, "Mama?" A little while later he would say it again. "Mama?...Mama?"
I asked him, who are you talking to? He said, "My mama. She's standing right there, can't you see her?"
In all these deathbed "visions" I have never once heard a patient call out to and claim to see someone who was still alive. I don't need a pietre dish full of goo or a microscope to tell me that something very special is happening to that person.
It would mean a lot to me to be able to talk to my father again. He died when I was 17 and there was a lot I never got to say to him. My cousin died at the young age of 34 recently, all of my family is slowly but surely slipping away. Most of my relatives from my childhood are gone (with the exception of my siblings, and they are just a bunch of junkies and boozers, losers and jerks) But one thing that would make me happy in life is to be able to see them all together, at my grandparents' place, enjoying their new life, and to know that one day I will be there with them.
But life is so full of unknowns. I do know one thing...scientists, with all their gobbeldy goop, can't disprove that life after death exists. And they can't prove that the voices we record are CB radios, or intercepted phone conversations or any other far fetched rationalizations.
I also want to tell you, that when I have done EVP's, I have also gotten the voices of children. ANd I want to tell you how I sincerely believe these voices cannot be that of actual children: I will inevitably get some other voices, many of which say things so nasty they are not even worth repeating. I in no way believe that children who die are left to be around these creatures. I do believe these creatures are capable of playing pranks and can mimick the voices of children in an attempt to fool the listener into believing there is something redeeming there and will attempt to continue communication.
There is so much to be leary of when you are working with standard EVPs.