Saving Kitty Genovese
Well we are building our own knowledge and confidence (and exercising our frustration) by baiting the woo... come on-- you've done it too. This is what will work Dr. A-- Ask people to write something specific... refer to a post of theirs that you thought was well written or useful and I'm sure they'll be glad to give it a go. We just don't know who or what you think is clear or useful or worded well.
Here's something I learned about human psychology... If you need help don't do this:
http://streetlights.tripod.com/queens/kitty-genovese.html
But it's not apathy as the article suggests--it's uncertainty...
http://objectivistcenter.org/ct-25-Why_Did_Kitty_Genovese_Die.aspx
So instead of screaming in the crowd, focus on someone specific...grab their eyes (or ears) and say, "hey sir call the police!"-- When you vent at crowds people will assume someone better equipped or more in on the situation will take care of it-- but if you give someone specific a specific job or directive (and flatter their writing on the topic in this case) then people rush to help.
We just don't know who you are talking to or what it is you want of whom and we don't want to be the one impeding the goal or the clueless person who calls the cops on a neighbor's screams only to find out someone was just having a really good orgasm.
Yes, I know the story of Kitty Genovese.
I know it well.
I first read the story when I was in my teens, and like you (as I suppose) I read it in a psychology textbook. She was murdered, and three dozen witnesses watched, and one of them might have called the police, but they didn't because each of them thought that someone else would do that. So each of them just watched as she was murdered.
Yes, I read the story --- and so I resolved never to do likewise.
You write: "When you vent at crowds people will assume someone better equipped or more in on the situation will take care of it ..." Well, I am that man in that crowd, as I know from painful and terrifying experience. I am not "better equipped", nor am I "more in on the situation". But I
have read about Kitty Genovese.
And I
will save Kitty Genovese, though I give my life to do so.
And
you ... you explain how
you will be a bystander, how
you will do nothing, and your stated reason for doing so is that the witnesses watched Kitty Genovese die. Do you not realise that the whole point of the story is that if one person had intervened, as it might have been you or me, Kitty Genovese might have lived? Her story does not prove that we should be bystanders, apathetic, sitting on our hands. It proves the very opposite. The moral of her death is that one person can make a difference, and that we should be ashamed of and disgusted with ourselves if we neglect the chance to be that one person.
Of course, I know full well that the cause that I call you to is not so urgent. Kitty Genovese was a living woman, and when she was murdered, she was dead, and that was the end of her. Whereas the truth, as I trust, may be spat upon, assaulted, raped, mutilated, murdered, and yet will rise again.
But we are still responsible, if we do nothing but look on.
Let us act.
Let us do whatever little we can.
Before we die, before we fail, before we go down into the great darkness alone ---
--- let us save Kitty Genovese.