No, just a misunderstanding on your part.

(I posted only a very abbreviated version, addressing a fairly narrow point, and so did not flesh out this part. My fault entirely; you are blameless...it was your environment.) Of course society, as an emergent property of individuals, is constrained by environment. (I was going to write more here, but instead I will refer you, conveniently enough, to a book your better half happens to own; take a look at Baum's "Understanding Behaviorism". My copy is at the office, or I'd tell you specifically what parts to read, but I am sure Kiless can help, or just read the whole thing.