Thanks to everyone who has taken the time to respond to my OP.
Just to clarify, yes, I am asking as to the reason "why" the double slit experiment is the way it is, not "how" it works. I believe I could have made myself clearer by referring to it as the "interpretation".
Im not able to post links yet but the youtube video Quantum Mechanics (an embarrassment) - sixty seconds video - this video pretty much sums up what I was trying to ask and pretty much gave me what I was looking for ie more "interpretations" to research. So, it's not just me who is asking why we don't seem to be making any progress here
I have found the responses to my post quite interesting though, some examples below:
It's just the way the Universe is made
Are you asking why physics are the way they are?
There is no 'why' in physics. There is only 'how'
What's to explain?
and that's all the answer you will ever get from physics about anything.
Is this part of the problem? Too many people who are not interested or dismissive of any proposed "why". The "why" for me is much more important than the "how". I assumed the point of working out the "how" was to eventually get to the "why"?
With regards to Tom Cambell's My Big TOE. Should we be dismissing all of any scientist's work because some parts of it are a bit non-mainstream? Was Isaac Newton not some kind of bible bashing alchemist or something?
Some of Tom Cambell's Virtual Reality theory is not too dissimilar to this Google Maths genius guy's own "interpretation" of our reality: Youtube Video "The Quantum COnspiracyy: What Popularizers of QM Don't Want You to Know).
For me personally, some kind of "virtual" reality seems a better option than a multi universe or Copenhagen interpretation. Id be interested to know how some of the "It's just the way the Universe is made" people go about thinking about the "why" ? Do they have no opinion at all, or are they also inclined to favour one explanation over another, based on their own intuition? After all , it seems that the scientists themselves (including the ones who are working out the "how"! ) do indeed have their own (and very varied) favourite "interpretation".