So much for intuition. The important factor is the ratio of strength to the magnitude of the forces experienced. When the forces experienced derive from the object's own mass (e.g. gravitational forces and dynamic loads), the relevant comparison becomes the ratio of the strength to the mass. Even the most delicate wine glass can support many times its own weight. Even the strongest office buildings cannot support many times their own weight. The comparison isn't even close. The wine glass is far stronger.
The better comparison is to take a wine glass, sever off 1/10th of the top, and analyze under what conditions the mass of that top 1/10th will crush the rest of the glass. Or, make a wine glass out of brick, take the top 1/10th...
