On that note from American:
Much of what I'd change can't be legislated. For one thing, I'm galled by the attitude of those who declare, "America -- love it or leave it." It's not a bad sentiment, and frankly, I think those who make that declaration ought to be the first to exercise it. After all, if you can't be bothered to vote, if you insist on squelching criticism, if you are constantly looking to justify your own actions, but ready to damn the next man's, obviously, you lack any love for what America stands for, and you ought to leave. The sooner, the better.
Otherwise, much of what I'd like to see change would start in the hearts and minds of people. Let's start by basing our actions on facts, rather than what we feel. Let's start realizing that we really aren't anywhere near as important as we think we are, and that maybe, we could do with a little less self-indulgence. Maybe we could do more walking rather than driving, for one example, or perhaps we could let the other guy go ahead of us in a line, rather than racing ahead and trying to beat him to the front.
Just once, I'd like to see people as a whole putting the needs of others ahead of themselves. If profit is your only motive, what are you really gaining? At the end of the day, if all you can do is count it, perhaps you haven't gained that much.
I'd love to see greater compassion. For one thing, I would like to see people think before they shoot their mouths off. I can't help but think that gays and lesbians are probably tired of hearing how they're all headed for Hell, especially when some of them behave with greater compassion and mercy than many of those who are condemning them, two traits that Jesus Himself praised highly in the Bible. I'd like to see us a little less doctrinaire about what constitutes "Moral" behavior, and a bit more wise about what truly is moral. I'd really like to see this discussed with wisdom and courage in an open and honest fashion by as many people as possible. Ultimately, I think we'd find we've more in common than we realize.
I'm not overly eager to see God brought into schools, into government, and into some sort of official recognition. More often than not, it's become a club for bludgeoning our political enemies, rather than a rod for comforting our neighbors. Religion is a fine thing, until we use it to control others, and that seems to be its sole purpose, anymore. Say and do the right things, be in the right places, and that's evidence that God rules your heart, even if what you're doing, saying, and where you're being, breaks the hearts of others. Sorry; I was on the receiving end of that for far too long. No more, please. If that means I pass on public prayers, if that means we remove "Under God" from the pledge, if that means the Church is treated the same as every other institution in American society, I can only think that's for the better.
I'd really like to see people take responsibility for their own actions. If you broke it, admit it. I can deal with a mistake. I can't deal with a lie.
If it's not yours, keep your hands off. If you need it, you can ask for it. Funny thing about that. Someone might actually say, "Yes." Why steal? I can deal with need. I can't deal with a thief. And if someone says yes, be honest enough to do what you say you'll do, nothing more, nothing less.
I'd really like to be able to stand on my own two feet more often, and to see others do the same. If you can't afford it, if it's one of the latest gizmos or what have you, maybe you don't need it right this second. There's something to be said for waiting. Frankly, if we talked more to our neighbors, instead of centering on ourselves, we might find that someone we already should know might be able to help us achieve what it is we want, and that we can help them do the same.
Of course, all of this requires courage, compassion, rationality, wisdom, intelligence, and a willingness to use them. And, from what I see on both sides, that's not happening any time soon.