No one is dragging Muslims out of their houses and murdering them for being Muslim or having a Koran in any Western countries I'm aware of.
Persecute, (verb):
To pursue in a manner to injure, grieve, or afflict; to beset with cruelty or malignity; to harass; especially, to afflict, harass, punish, or put to death for adherence to a particular religious creed or mode of worship; To harass with importunity [...]
Can you see now that killing is only one means of persecution?
People don't have to be killed to be persecuted. They may be afflicted, harassed, or punished, as well, and not be killed. They may be denied housing, employment, promotion, and other civil or social benefits, based solely on their beliefs or the lack thereof. All of that is persecution, not just death.
Is this clear, now?
The area I live in has a decent Muslim population compared to other areas, With many owning business and such; and everyone gets along fine.
That it's not happening in your neighborhood, doesn't mean it's not happening at all. It may even be happening in your area, and you simply aren't aware.
And as far as the western "media" is concerned its an unwritten law now that you can make fun of any religious deity except Allah in "any" setting.
Why is this? Militant extremists use their threats and physical attacks to force us to change free speech policy.
Oh, yes, that has happened.
However, some Christians have also tried to force "policy" changes through threats or physical attacks. Some Christians have murdered abortion doctors, or bombed abortion clinics, or simply harassed the women who go to them, for instance. That many or most do not doesn't mean there are none who do.
Basically if your Muslim you need not worry as long as you do not have ties to militant groups.
Most people who persecute Muslims for being Muslim rarely check out their victim's possible ties to militant groups beforehand.
The same as any religion? How about Christianity, for example?
http://www.goddiscussion.com/15388/dispatches-return-to-africas-witch-children/
A year ago, Dispatches told the story of how children in Africa's Niger Delta were being denounced by Christian pastors as witches and wizards, and then killed, tortured or abandoned by their own families. All of this was done in the name of God and Christianity.
The original film caused international outrage.
Children as young as two years old are still being denounced as witches and wizards today … and horrific abuse continues. Five to six children are branded as witches every single day. Local schools refuse to accept children who have been branded witches, so the only educational opportunities come from charity.
An influx of Pentecostal Christianity has created extremism in many areas of Nigeria, and coupled with basic African superstitious beliefs, has prompted the increasing accusations of witchcraft.
The point being that no group, no ideology, no system of belief, is free from fanatics who persecute others. No one has exclusivity in this.