In some sense this seems a touch like a double standard. And I think its one we all have. Our own experiences are immutable and undeniable to ourselves, yet others are viewed with skepticism. I'm really unsure how valid this is. Obviously our experiences seem more apparent to us, but if anything our own bias should make us challenge them more.jmercer said:It's mostly because of the claims made by them... and I'm also skeptical of many of the claims and beliefs of the Catholic Church (and others) as well. And - if I had no experiences of my own - and someone related to me my experiences as theirs, I would absolutely be skeptical.
While I understand what your saying, I also think you'd understand why I see this as one of the fundamental problems with peoples opinion of their own experiences. You are more strongly tied to them simply because they are yours. Again the validity of this is probably arguable.But they're not someone else's experiences... they're mine, and therefore not so easily dismissed. It's a very uncomfortable position to be in, especially here... but I can't let discomfort be the deciding factor in my beliefs. Not and live with myself afterward, anyway.![]()
We reign in our skepticism in order to be civil, and in order to get along with other people. This does not change the fact that we are consciously putting our skepticism on the back burner. Plus your spouse has observable behaviours and habits and other such things so you have something with which to make some judgements on. I don't have to counter every comment my spouse makes with a verbal retort for her to know my opinion on the topic. My gf is well aware of what my opinions are, and we respect each other's views and are polite towards each other about it.I'm not sure that it's possible to successfully apply skepticism to every aspect of life. For example, can you imagine being a skeptic toward your spouse every time s/he made a statement that you didn't know the accuracy of? I suspect that the relationship between the two of you would become strained, at the least.
Having faith in your potential, of your physical and mental abilities is different. You have your behaviour and habits and past experiences with which to draw conclusions and judgements from. I do not think it is the same thing at all. I also do martial arts (European, rather than Asian) and yes a sense of learning something new and achieving proficiency in a skill gives a person a sense of accomplishment and confidence in their ability. But I think this is entirely different from holding faith in an unquantifiable and undefined concept.Also, as a martial artist, I can state for the record that faith in yourself, your training and your art are necessary until you reach a level of self-confidence that eliminates the need for it. Those that don't have that faith usually don't reach the level of self-confidence, and drop out.
I'd disagree. We ourselves are proof of life in the universe. All that is required is the right conditions. So its a matter of probability just how likely it is there is other life out there, and how likely we are to come in contact with it. SETI's approach might seem like a toss in the dark, and it likely is, but there is a probable logic behind it.Then there's SETI... if I apply skepticism to the concept of intelligent life elsewhere in the universe, then SETI makes no sense. Worse, skepticism would force me to take a worldview where the earth is the only planet with life in the entire universe, because there's no proof otherwise.
Again I agree, but we have to be careful to not become too lax on the area's of life we scale back our skepticism upon. We can, and often do, in my opinion, let it run too freely sometimes.Don't get me wrong - skepticism is a wonderful and enlightening process, and I prefer it over just about any other approach. However, I also believe that most people are not self-consistent in all the things they do or believe... and I'm not sure that's necessarily a bad thing, either.![]()