ilk said:
You could very easily live your life with those values and not call yourself a Christian.
Right on. The same could be said of Jews, Muslims, Buddists, Taoists, atheists, agnostics and so on. We are all brothers and sisters of the SAME race...the HUMAN race, and are all here to love and serve one another REGARDLESS of what we may think and believe in. Is that asking too much???
OK, so I'm starting to sound like Mohandas Ghandi or Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Not everyone can reach the same level these distingushed gentleman have, granted. But I believe it was Dr. Martin Luther King who said it best by saying "we can all be great because we can ALL serve." Even a simple random act of kindness such as a friendly "hello" to a complete stranger is better than doing nothing at all for your fellow man.
On a purely rational and scientific level, no...this is not credible evidence or "proof" that it can bring you any "closer to God." That's a purely personal decision that you and ONLY you can make...not some whacko right wing fundamentalist Christian preaching on a stage in front of thousands of people or anyone else for that matter. Only YOU!
But what it IS guaranteed to bring you is a renewed sense of serenity and an improved social atmosphere with those around you...REGARDLESS of whether you choose to believe in
god (or any other number of godS) or not.
The choice, then ultimately boils down to this: PEACE or CHAOS?
ilk said:
I disagree with your use of spirituality. "This is what works" could easily apply to principles arrived at through the scientific method. How is it spiritual to operate under values which were arrived at by rational thought as opposed to emotionality?
I wasn't making this claim with an appeal to emotionality, but rather with an appeal reason and common sense. I strongly recommend reading Steven Covey's "7 Habits of Highly Effective People" (
www.stevencovey.com) to get a better understanding of what I'm trying to convey here in as amiably non-intrusive way as possible.
I've mentioned the principles of love, respect, compassion, tolerance, honesty, integrity, and fairness in my original post. Just to prove it to yourself, try the exact opposite of each and every one of these, and see how far you'll get. Really, if you do, PLEASE share your success stories here on this board; I'd really be interested!
ilk said:
Once again I guess I'm just complaining about semantics. I'm a person that believes that dictionaries are there for a purpose. Communication is a difficult process. It becomes increasingly more difficult when everyone has a different set of meanings for the same word.
You would consider the person I described spiritual. I would consider them good. According to dictionary.com, sprituality is interlinked with religion and the belief in the paranormal. Simply thinking of something as good, whether subjectively or objectively, has a lot less baggage in my view.
OK, thanks for that. I use the Merriam-Webster online dictionary, and here's what it says about that:
One entry found for spirituality.
Main Entry: spir·i·tu·al·i·ty
Pronunciation: "spir-i-ch&-'wa-l&-tE
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural -ties
1 : something that in ecclesiastical law belongs to the church or to a cleric as such
2 : CLERGY
3 : sensitivity or attachment to religious values
4 : the quality or state of being spiritual
So OK...you got me there on that. But what about the definition under #4? Here's what is says for spiritual:
3 entries found for spiritual.
To select an entry, click on it.
spiritual[1,adjective]spiritual[2,noun]spiritual bouquet
Main Entry: 1spir·i·tu·al
Pronunciation: 'spir-i-ch&-w&l, -i-ch&l, -ich-w&l
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French & Late Latin; Middle French spirituel, from Late Latin spiritualis, from Latin, of breathing, of wind, from spiritus
1 : of, relating to, consisting of, or affecting the spirit : INCORPOREAL <man's spiritual needs>
2 a : of or relating to sacred matters <spiritual songs> b : ecclesiastical rather than lay or temporal <spiritual authority> <lords spiritual>
3 : concerned with religious values
4 : related or joined in spirit <our spiritual home> <his spiritual heir>
5 a : of or relating to supernatural beings or phenomena b : of, relating to, or involving spiritualism : SPIRITUALISTIC
- spir·i·tu·al·ly adverb
- spir·i·tu·al·ness noun
I prefer to use the term in the context of definition #2, and I absolutely BELIEVE (even if it turns out that there is indeed NO god at all) in the value of human life; in the values of love, respect, compassion, tolerance, fairness, honesty and integrity as
ALL BEING SACRED MATTERS!
No disrespect; I don't know you personally and for all I know, you could be the greatest individual in the world. But if these matters are NOT sacred enough for you, and if you wonder why you lead such a miserable, unhappy and unfulfilled life, then perhaps you may want to think about these things for yourself. Otherwise, please advise how I'm in any way, shape or form incorrect in my usage of the word "spirituality."