Earthborn:
I don't know how to say this tactifully, but it is obvious you have a very basic grasp of programming, and what consititutes a program.
Not pnly can program flow change, the possible outcomes of the program can change and grow with time. This is done already. For a simple example, look at the various "Twenty Questions" type websites that exist. They grow and adapt by adding new information to their database whenever they are stumped. The program/blueprint (DNA) stays the same, but environmental factors allow them to alter their database of responses (much as memory and conditioning work in animals).
Also, I'd suggest a bit of study on emergent behavior. Complex behavior of insects does not "easily overflow the tens of thousands of genetic instructions". Simple instructions can give rise to very complex behavior. One of the first examples of this was the simple game "Life", that had very limited rules but produced behavior strikingly similar to that of real organisms. Additionally, insect behavior is precisely what has been modelled in many small, robotic systems...because they can use relatively few, simple instructions that, when multiple units are acting in concert, develop into complex emergent behaviors.
Also, you seem to use parallel processing as a synonym for nueral network.. Parallel processing is, quite simply, the ability to run multiple tasks at once. My home PC does this now. Parallel processing does not eliminate the need for programming, it simply allows multiple programs to be run simultaneously.
As to writing a program that does what a spider does, I doubt it would be that large. As I mentioned, studies are undergoing in these areas as we speak, but I'll touch on that more later. It is purely your assumption that this would require some huge, complex program and a huge, powerful computer.
Yes, I know DNA doesn't produce anything itself, I assumed you would understand what I meant with that statement.
Next, on neural networks:
No, I am not. Neural networks don't have to be programs, they can also be made with hardware.
Just because it's hardware, does not mean it isn't a program. It simply means it isn't a software program. ANY logic that can be done in hardware can be programmed in software. The first computers were all hardware based programs. Punch cards and paper tape were the next extension of this. Current software programs work by directing the CPU (a general purpose electronic IC) to emulate various combinations of hardware gates. Neural networks still require programming (done in the blueprint, at the least...all that I know of still contain software code, as well), and MUST be able to be reprogrammed on the fly in order to learn (by assigning differring weights to various linkages between elements of the network). The reason this is done in neural networks is not because it isn't possible in software, but because a dedicated hardware program is much more efficient at the task it is designed for (as opposed to a general purpose computer).
It seems you next contradict yourself by claiming that the learning computer must be programmed, when in the paragraph before you stated neural networks don't require programming. Neural networks are still computers. In any case, neural networks need some programming as well, both hardware and software, so I don't see how this supports your argument.
A computer can be a learning machine, neural networks being a case in point. And not all computers have to simulate parallel processing...my home computer is perfectly capable of parallel processing (dual CPUs), and massivley parallel processors are being used as supercomputers as we speak, capable of true parallel processing of hundreds of tasks simultaneously.
Finally, I have NEVER, in ANY of my posts stated that animals are "completely hardwired", nor have I ever denied that they grow or develop.
I am not arguing that all behavior is hard-wired. I am not arguing that organisms don't develop. I am not arguing that learning isn't possible for some portion of animals. What I am arguing is that some behaviors are built-in to the organism, specifically certain instinctual behaviors that are necesary for the animal to survive. Learning can add to this, and in extreme cases it can counteract some of it in individuals...if that individual has sufficient capacity to learn. To my knowledge, this has never been done successfully with spiders.
The consensus is that some instinctual behaviors are hardwired, while others are learned. The greater the capacity for learning in an animal, the fewer behaviors are hardwired. It's a scale, from virii and bacteria (which are completely hardwired systems incapable of learning), to humans (who have a few instinctual behaviors, many of which can be overwritten by later learning).
Edited to remove inappropriate remarks and clarify some formatting errors. It's been a long day, I apologize.