kurious_kathy
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Knowing people takes time, but trusting them may never be possible. And I'm not saying we are to go around not trusting either. People are fallable and mess up even when sometimes it's by accident. They don't mean to hurt you, or your feelings, but they certainly can and do quite often.Trusting people without knowing them and whether they are deserving of trust is stupid. But I need no god to inform me of that.
I don't know this person but from what you've shared he sounds suspicious on whether he is the real deal. And even if he is a real believer, it doesn't mean he's called to be a pastor. God's the one that tells us to check our faith and our motivations. If someone is pastoring a church for the wrong reasons then I feel sorry for them. They could very well be one of those wolves we are warned to stay clear of.So it's okay with you that the man, the real man, I described above is a minister now?
Well I can't say that sounds right, but God knows if his motivations aren't right. If he's not called of God to serve the way he wants to, then he should possibly step down and re-evaluate his calling or faith. If his congregation has grown and there seems to be good fruit in his congregation then perhaps God really has given him a gift to preach? I don't know him so I can't make that call clearly. We are told to test the fruit and what each pastor preaches to see if He does teach the word correctly.It's okay with you that he bought a piece of paper off the Internet for $50 that says he's a minister, and that's all he's got in the way of credentials?
What church is his church? If you don't want to say I understand. All I know there are many false teachers out there and we are taught in scripture to beware.It's okay with you that he owns his own church, a real church, with pews and an organ and hymnals and collection plates?
Well if he hasn't confessed his sins then Jesus can't forgive him. Are you sure he's never confessed and asked for forgiveness of his sin? That would definitely say he's a phoney to me. People need to be brutely honest with themselves and others to be right with eachother and God. I hope he confesses and mostly to you. If he never asked you for forgiveness then that's a pretty strong inclination that his heart isn't right. If anyone thinks God can be mocked they are sorely mistaken.It's okay with you that he has never told a soul here about his past, never confessed his sins, and that everyone who trusts him now can do so only because he's been dishonest with them--the opposite of "trustworthy?"
Don't judge God by your ex. God and him are not the same people. If he's a phoney then God will have his time to confront him. I myself wonder why God allows so many of the preachers we know that are teaching heresies are even aloud to keep going out there in ministry? No matter what we can choose to call them out if they are heretical teachers and tell them so. I know lots of people don't like Hank at CRI because that's his specialty. Hey sling why not contact Hank and ask him to check out your ex's church and teaching, it could prove quite interesting.Well, hey, it is apparently all right with God, so who am I to question his obvious good taste in shepherds, hmmm?
No sling, Santa and God aren't the same either. God is very much real. And I understand some of your pain, I have certainly gone through things that are painful too, but I still know God is who He says He is, LOVE. Accept no substitutes, there is only one that loves you so much he was willing to die for you. He loves you and wants to spend eternity with you, but it's your choice.You can trust God exactly as you can trust Santa Claus.
I'd rather place my limited and highly guarded trust in real flesh-and-blood people I can see. And whom I can sue if they screw me over. When "God" screws you over, there's no recourse.
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