Can 13 year olds do anything do you think?
I mean are we going top lock them away till they are 18?
Children play, swear, run around naked, have their pictures taken, play with their toys, play with their genitals. Do they need informed consent to do these things?
For some reason you think that taking nude pictures of children is something they cannot give informed consent to. I wonder why you single that out.
I didn't single it out. I gave many examples of things that 13 year olds are not allowed to do
by law. I also added the term "right or wrong" which you chose not to see. That was my point. You chose it to mean something else. It is not the pictures
per se that concern me at all
. It is publication of the pictures, without the child/woman (possibly) being made aware of potential subsequent ramifications.
And yes, I do have nude pictures of my daughters (although they were much younger than 13 at the time. They were sharing a bath and a rubber duck if you are interested in that sort of thing. I shall not put it on the internet however, nor in an art gallery.
I also took them to a nudist colony as well (when they were about 10 and nine).
A photo of your own child attending the local fair could be printed in the local newspaper if you give your consent to the photographer. Would you warn your child that a dirty old man might masturbate in front of it. Are you going to ask your daughter for informed consent for this photo?
It is a lesser degree of risk. I never encouraged them to go to the local fair naked. Oh, I did let them go alone once though. And when they were that age, there was no such thing as the intrawebs.
You are right in a way though. Anybody can have a fetish about anything. But there is a degree at which some people draw a line, and others draw another. I had no problem with the nudist colony, because I knew the people (my parents and my sister and her husband were among the members) and knew how careful the vetting process was. Risk was not eliminated, but it was minimised. So, not a problem.
Ditto for any picture of your child.
Are you really going to tell your daughter that before you give your consent to the photographer?
Had it been in this day and age and she was 13 and wanted to pose naked for publication, yes, I would discuss as many possibilities that I could think of so that she (they) could, you know,
actually think about the matter. But I would do that for any subject they raised. It makes sense to actually talk to your kids, and advise them of the possibe consequences of any actions. It worked for me. They are still alive, as close to normal as people can be.
Norm