I remain the same. Yes, she was so wrong on those points. I find that with government doing the charity work, force is justified as our social compact requires it and democratically done without violating our rights .
Of course it violates rights. That is the entire nature of force. It is impossible to use force without violating rights. The key issue is whether the rights of some individuals sufficiently override the rights of others that they are justified in the use of government power to enforce their claims.
I have a right to the product of my labour, to benefit myself from the work I do with my own two hands and my own brain. Others have the right to life, and the resources to support their life. At what point does their right to life and support override my right to to support myself with and enjoy the fruits of my labour. Or, to put it more simply, when does their support become more important than my support? What is the line?
And I'm getting tired of people throwing out "social contract" as if it's some all-abidingly holy unassailable principle, without even bothering to define what they mean by it? What is the "social contract"? Why should I necessarily be bound by it? How is it better than any other worldview?
As for being done "democratically", the "tyrrany of the majority" is just as much a tyrrany as any other. "Democracy is three wolves and a sheep deciding what to have for dinner".
So,here is the nub of our disagreement . You equate all force as the same .
No, that's your assertion, not mine. There are multiple degrees of force, and multiple justifications for it's use which vary in degree of legitimacy.
There's a study, discussed in another thread, that purports to show that those who favour government distribution of wealth -- redistributionists -- are less generous than than those who oppose it. Non-intuitive, certainly, but charity donation patterns tend to support that assertion, even when corrected for income levels. Both are taxed the same, but anti-redistributionists contribute over and above considerably more (I believe the assertion was 9 times) what redistributionists do.
Redistributionists are far more free with other people's money, via taxation, than they are with their own. I've never known one who said "I'd gladly pay more taxes" who wasn't flat-out lying -- the very next moment complaining bitterly about their own tax burden. When it comes time to support or vote on taxes, it's never taxes on themselves they advocate, but taxes on "the wealthy", which translates to anyone who has more money than they do, since they never consider themselves part of "the wealthy".