Squeegee Beckenheim
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It's also worth pointing out that the biggest way to eliminate prejudices against people is for those with prejudices to encounter ideas which are contrary to those prejudices. We see it often in one way on this forum with members who once believed in all kinds of nonsense but now no longer do, due to discussing them here. With direct prejudice, I have an example from real life.
I once fell in with a group of friends who were all homophobic. My flatmate at the time was gay. They started off distrustful of him but, though spending time with him, they ended up liking him and re-thought their prejudices. Similarly, I once knew someone who was horribly racist. Through circumstances he ended up spending time with people of different races, and he ended up marrying an Indian girl.
If you shut the bigots off into their own echo chamber of bigotry, then all they will do is reinforce each other's ideas. If you engage them and allow them to see that the people they're prejudiced against are people too, then there's a possibility you may change their minds.
That's how you change the world - by being a part of it. Not by shutting yourself off somewhere where nothing you disagree with can enter.
I once fell in with a group of friends who were all homophobic. My flatmate at the time was gay. They started off distrustful of him but, though spending time with him, they ended up liking him and re-thought their prejudices. Similarly, I once knew someone who was horribly racist. Through circumstances he ended up spending time with people of different races, and he ended up marrying an Indian girl.
If you shut the bigots off into their own echo chamber of bigotry, then all they will do is reinforce each other's ideas. If you engage them and allow them to see that the people they're prejudiced against are people too, then there's a possibility you may change their minds.
That's how you change the world - by being a part of it. Not by shutting yourself off somewhere where nothing you disagree with can enter.