Not willing to re-read what you missed, I see.

Ming boggling how people can make up their own versions of reality and pretend other people interacted in that made up reality.
A review:
This exchange was originally about police ignoring women's charges of domestic violence resulting in failure to prevent murder and escalating serious injuries. That changed a couple decades ago when the practice of 'wink wink' between the police and the male abusers came to social and political attention. The result was many police departments creating domestic violence tasks forces and enacting automatic arrest policies.
The unsupportable claim was then made that somehow this change was originally about police never arresting female abusers. I've no doubt some women were also not charged when the problem was at its peak but that paled in comparison to the serious injuries and deaths that the police were allowing because of their very sexist attitude the woman probably deserved the abuse or egged it on.
This era in police failure to prevent continued escalating domestic violence because they ignored domestic victims is well documented, well known, and the sexism still lingers though it is somewhat better, in the US at least.
If you want to say, hooray, they are prosecuting some of those women finally, be my guest. I don't doubt the police also let said female abusers off the hook.
But the men were never dying or suffering serious physical injuries from abusing women in the numbers women were dying or suffering serious physical injuries from abusing men.