recursive prophet
Graduate Poster
Don't raise them as a hypothetical. Say that something hurts you. Not that it's not civil or doesn't conform to your idea of reasonable discourse. Say that something causes you pain.
I said being interrogated in an aggressive manner triggered my anxiety in my reply to ceepolk, and was banned for trolling. Or was it really for 'tone policing? Doesn't this rule eliminate even the possibility of what you suggest above? Are not the vast majority of people offended by being belittled personally on public forums? And if some of the super sensitive types A+ supposedly goes out of it's way to protect become the victim of such abuse, might it not be more likely to be harmful than receiving a PM?
I don't know, but it's a reasonable assumption to believe that more people are harmed by personal attacks than unsolicited pms. Why are you comparing the frequency of this?
Because it is somehow argued at A+ that while the very few who might be offended by a PM be protected at the cost of inconveniencing everyone else while the clearly more likely behavior to trigger harmful insecurity among the sensitive-pile-on attacks by a group of very aggressive staff and members-is not only condoned but rationalized under freedom of expression, ffs! Then they have the nerve to claim objecting to such attacks is trolling?
I agree that verbal abuse should be stopped. I think it's gotten better since the forum started, and I've seen several members specifically subject to moderation for engaging in personal abuse.
From what I've seen it must have been p. nasty for that to happen, and again would appreciate links to where you objected to this kind of behavior on the boards. As to the situation getting better I would suggest it's because they have now pretty much eliminated or cowed any who dared question the personal experience authority of the unprivileged in-crowd. Look at the numbers next time you go there. The user and guest counts keep going down along with the number of posts. 2,400+ on the member list, while they now average fewer than 20 viewing. At the moment there are 12. For me this speaks volumes.
The term "street thug" is racialized in modern US discourse and has been for a generation.
Wow. Can you present any evidence at all to support this assertion? I can assure you I was quite definitely thinking of white thugs in this case as I suspect most of those I was applying the analogy to are white. This is now starting to look like an inverted straw herring. Race has nothing to do with what is being discussed here, so you can only lose credibility trying to make it an issue. And you can't even defeat the straw man part if you can not site or link any proof that the term "street thugs" equates in any way with race except in your mind.
@Myriad: Thanks for the clarifications on so many points here. I only wish I had your talent for clear and succinct articulation.