I just got a one-day ban for taking another member to task over the following statement:
I don't think you'd actually get that I care about this forum, this community, and the members here. I care about their thoughts. I care about their feelings. I care about the fact that I'M the oppressor along this axis
This is in a discussion that I started about atheism plus being a predominantly white thing, and saying that if they really wanna' make a difference, they should focus on making it more relevant to people of other races/cultures.
The response is from a white person, saying essentially that by simple merit of the fact they are 'white', they are an oppressor of any non-white group. The politically-correct ******** there is so deep that you can drown in it quite quickly.
I tried to argue that your skin color doesn't make you an oppressor; I was given a bunch of nonsense about 'privilege', and then got the one-day ban.
What really gets me is that all these people, in seeking to be so politically-correct and "sensitive" to others, only show their patronizing attitude towards those same people. The idea that non-whites are
incapable of looking past your skin color, that all of them are so shallow or such helpless victims that the mere fact I have white skin causes them to feel victimized. Yeah, I'm sure there are some people like that...but the vast majority, no.
A bunch of white people with nothing better to do than sit around making excuses why they can't do anything because they are privileged whites. Trying to initiate dialogue to understand other cultures is patronizing, because you're white. Giving money to help others is condescending, and proof of your white insensitivity, in assuming that those non-whites want or need your money. Offering help is a hopeless sign of white pride, to think that you could possibly have anything that they need or want from you.
All of those things
can be condescending, arrogant, etc. But they can
also be done in a spirit of partnership, in a manner that empowers the group in question by giving them tools, resources, and knowledge that they don't currently have, to accomplish the goals that they themselves have set as priorities.
All-in-all, what I see is a brilliant opportunity to simultaneously feel wonderful about what an amazingly sensitive person you are,
and to do absolutely nothing about it. "Privilege" means not only that you have more than others, but that you are effectively barred from using it to help anyone else.