Takes a deep breath and steps into the firing line...
Hi all
I'm curious, do you all believe all mediums are just con artists or what? I am part beliver and part sceptic and the sceptic side of me can't believe they're all just con artists.
Are there any genuine mediums out there or is it all one big con?
Regards
Paul
I used to believe I had psychic abilities. I gave tarot readings (for free), and I consulted my spirit guide, and heard my (dead) grandmother speak to me when meditating once.
So, I would not consider the old me to be a con artist - I was not intentionally deceiving people. I honestly believed I was given the ability to interpret signs, and that I was using it for good. So I believed I was genuine, and so did plenty of other people.
However, even as I did all this, I constantly came up with questions about what I was doing, and how I managed to do it. Why could I only get instinctive flashes about things? Why could I not use this 'power' when I concentrated hard on something important? What about the times I was wrong (although they were freakishly few - even looking back as a hardened skeptic) - what happened then?
I soon realised that I was very good at picking up subliminal signals from people, or noticing things in the distance. My specialty was knowing when a driver was about to turn suddenly, or not turn where they signalled to. I could read the traffic around me uncannily. I tested myself on what external information I could possibly have noticed, and realised I am more of an expert on body language, or verbal subtleties than most.
I suffered some severe abuse from new agers and 'healers' over several years, but without this I still had a questioning nature and would have arrived where I am now anyway. The fact that others in my niche did not have any patience for my curiousness, and did not ask the same things of themselves is what finally made me take that final scary step out of the new age community. Otherwise I would still be living in la-la- land, and believing things about how my inquisitive nature was denying me an easy path in life, or my injuries and years of incredible bad fortune must be something I deserved, whether from something I had done in this life, or in another.
There are no genuine mediums. There are people with genuine intentions, but not psychic powers. There are people who could be helpful if you were discussing difficult choices you needed to make, but some friends can do that for you without the mumbo jumbo. It's a matter of reading, yes, but not reading cards, or signs, or what spirits show you - it's a matter of reading the environment and the person before you.
And then there are the con artists who read the newspapers, audience listings, area information, web sites, etc to glean what they need - as well as reading the people around them.