How so?
Complexity said:
Someone who uses 'g-d' rather than 'god' is either exhibiting or catering to superstitious beliefs, neither of which is acceptable to me
You said that this statement assumes that "what is acceptable to him is important or matters to others", but in the statement he didn't say anything about whether his opinion should be important to others. You can't infer from that statement any more than what you can infer from any other statement (which is that, as a general rule, anyone posting on internet assumes that it matters to others; Without that assumption, there is no dialog).
I also like you, FattyCatty. I honestly mean it.
In your response to Slingblade, you said:
I can understand that. I guess I would hope for a distinction between "that's a silly thing you're doing by believing" and "you're a silly person for believing." You seem to be making that distinction.
I think many people in this forum make that distinction, but not everyone, of course. If you ask me, I'll tell you that belief in god/s is irrational. I even started a thread about how that statement is perceived, and in fact that particular thread was partly inspired by your posts from another debate. However, I believe everyone does irrational things, and that having an irrational belief doesn't imply being an irrational person (in fact, I don't know exactly what an "irrational person" is; maybe a person with more irrational beliefs than the average?). In fact, I'm concerned that "irrational" is necessarily perceived as a derogative epithet. It shouldn't be, in my opinion. I think it's important to distinguish what's rational from what's irrational, which is closely linked (and interchangeable most of the time) to what's scientific and what's unscientific. Being aware of this difference raises new questions that can lead to an epistemological improvement (an improvement in our methods of gathering knowledge) so that's an honest, not arrogant at all, concern. You may not share my definition of "rational". Fine, just try to remember what I mean when I say it. I always try to clarify what I mean as much as possible, even in English

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Also, facts are cold and hard. They just are. Sometimes, people state them in a seemingly cold and hard way too. They can be wrong, too. However, the way we say things (warmer, like Slingblade, or colder, like Complexity) isn't related at all with whether the things we say are right or not. From your response to Slingblade, I gather you're conflating your emotional response with your rational response to the different inputs you receive generally in this forum. I understand that behavior, and I think that, although to different extents, everyone is naturally prone to that. I have had this behavior, and tend to have it whenever I'm convinced I'm right or someone is being obnoxious to me or people I like. It's difficult not to be emotionally involved with what you believe, but being emotionally involved, if it prevents us from using a consistent method of dealing with facts (reason) leads to confirmation bias and rational inconsistence (and therefore, to irrational thoughts). Some years ago, I encountered online a person who participated in skeptic, atheist and religious forums, who usually expressed his ideas in a particularly cold way. I was first turned off by his seemingly arrogant tone (as others, who were more concerned about how other people perceived them, as could be seen by their more emotional posts) but soon I realized that he was only interested in discussing facts and didn't care at all about how other members' emotions would deal with the facts he discussed. He cared about internet etiquette, because he rightly thought that that's the proper way of having fruitful debates. I engaged in debates with that person, partly because I wanted to show that wise guy that he could be wrong, and partly because I also cared about facts. Facts won most of the time, and I often had to capitulate. I was happy, though. I learned a lot thanks to that person, and I personally thanked him later on for not being particularly nice to me and caring about the facts.