Skeptic Ginger
Nasty Woman
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- Feb 14, 2005
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Thanks. It seemed appropriate for Thanksgiving.Awesome new avatar btw !
There are so many false assumptions here it is hard to let them slide, but I will. I already clearly said my post did not address you personally.Seriously ... if you really do not want to answer my question, just say that you don't want to. It's so easy to do. I am not going to accuse, or anything like that. What is irritating, is when you avoid it and try to take it elsewhere. Avoid it by saying, "I'm going to avoid it" or simply don't respond at allI have no problem with that whatsoever, I think it's more respectful actually
You don't have to quote posts that sounded like ridicule to you ... I am not debating, or putting anything on a judges stand. I didn't even consider the idea that your post addressed my posts specifically .... what drew me to your post was the curiosity of how someone with the post count you have on the JREF would actually be concerned with whether or not someone else was being ridiculed. I was curious as to your actual emotional, psychological, whatever reason for that concern. You specifically ....
Moving on:
I didn't 'personally take offense'. I noticed some of the posts addressing Nicole's use of "G-d" instead of god were snarky (to use the forum term). Clearly she felt the same way as she posted a note of appreciation that I spoke up.And you still haven't answered that specific, personal question I asked. The other straw can burn in a Halloween pumpkinSo again .... would you rather everyone sugar coat things, or just specific people whom you find to have ridiculed ... rather than go ahead and letting them hang themselves by their own ridiculing if they so desire ? IOW .... why did you personally take offense or have an issue with it ? I'm curious as to WHY you would stand up and essentially say, "come on guys ... that's enough" ... again, the personal reason is what I'm asking. If you don't want to answer it, just say you don't want to and don't. Or ignore this post. If you divert from answering it again with all this other stuff that I'm telling you quite clearly I don't even care about ... I probably will drop it and keep moving on myself, assuming you're simply going to dodge it because you either don't want to share the substance of it or there is no substance there to share anyway. Which is okay to do ... I'm just telling you i would prefer you be straight up is all
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I am definitely a direct confronter and was not complaining about any direct confrontation. I find most sugar coating to be a waste of thread space. However, I've had to learn, myself, to be careful when directly confronting people because people often read all sorts of things into a post that are not there. Likewise, somethimes there are snarky things in posts that were not really intended but nonetheless are said.
I'm unclear why this is so important to you.