This is The End
Penultimate Amazing
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Ah, Mark6 just edged me out, with pith.
The difference is memories, experiences, software. I do not believe in immortal soul, but I think that a brain with no patterns in it is just inert meat -- hardware. The person is software.
Viability outside of the womb being the normal response. (Though I would wonder how large the gap is between viability in a current hospital setting and viability in a historic natural setting. Not to mention whether or not people are around to help, with no help it wouldn't really matter if it was a hospital or a cave...)
I'm not personally trying to move these (somewhat shaky) goalposts that are set from a viability standpoint, yet since some people seem to find the need for them to be moved back to conception, I pose the following.
I doubt the "software program" than the human brain "runs" to make us "human" (I'd rather not turn this into a memory/processing topic) is very developed at all until several months after the 3rd term/birth.
Most people have their first memory somewhere around age 5.
It probably had something to do with what a thoroughly insane and dishonest pile of mindless bigotry it was.(why did my post go red and underlined?)
And a fetus doesn't have memories, experiences, software? These all just happen during birth?
PT -- Any time you have the chance for live sperm to end up inside a fertile woman -- be it by fingertip, tongue, mechanical toy, or what-have-you--conception can occur. It's rare, certainly, but it can happen.
Most people learn to speak some time before that.
Generaly much much later. Remember how underdeveloped humans are at birth.
That's called "pro-choice". I speak here as one who debated this topic on talk.abortion for years.I disagree. Often it is the best possible choice which is why it should be available. I am pro-abortion because I believe people should have options even if I would never choose the option for myself.

Here is another graphic description of a part of what's involved in carrying a pregnancy to term. As a childfree person, I could have lived forever without learning exactly what a "cystocele" was.With respect, Sir (or woman who hasn't been there), bearing a child for 40 weeks and then giving birth to it is not just "emotional suffering". It's a life-changing physiological event. Put simply, it is in very slow motion having a chemically active bowling ball put into your abdomen.
I suspect that some would like to revise it to read "safe, legal, and as inconvenient and unpleasant as possible.""Safe, legal and rare" is the common phrase.
Or are they trying to remove the legal part?
What discrimination? When his body is involved, it's his choice. When hers is involve, it's hers. When a child comes into existence, at birth, both are responsible for that child.I find the male aspect of the whole abortion issue perhaps the most interesting and difficult, partly because I am a male, I guess...
It seems to me that a lot of people have contradictory opinions on this, and a male's obligations. Most pro-choice people argue that the male's opinion is irrelevant - it's the woman's body and her choice, and to a degree I agree with that position. However you seldom see them campaigning for a male's right to refuse child support payments for a child they never wanted. The argument then is "If you're going to have sex you have to accept the consequences".
That, to me, smacks of hypocrisy. It seems illogical that the woman is not required to "accept the consequences", but that if the woman chooses to, the man must accept them.
This is particularly of issue because more often than not it's the female that's in control of birth control. And yes, I've know of numerous cases of girls who intentionally interfered with their birth control without their partner's knowledge so they could get pregnant.
It's a sticky situation, because I can't see a solution either way. On the one hand, I'm pro choice, and that respects the woman's right to make the decision herself. Yet on the other hand there's a good argument that an absent parent should still provide something towards the child that they helped create.
Perhaps this could be a pro-life argument then? The law has set a precedent that a male does not have a choice in the matter. Therefore a female should not either, otherwise the law discriminates on grounds of gender.
Oh? Cite for "most", please? Mine is from the summer I turned two.Most people have their first memory somewhere around age 5.
On t.a I dealt with someone who argued that as long as the law required men to be financially responsible for children they father, he couldn't even masturbate in safety, since some woman might break into his home and steal his used tissue solely for the purpose of getting pregnant so she could demand his money. (My response was, "Have you any idea how paranoid you sound?")I wonder who got knocked up by a blow job... Well maybe if there are three or more people...
You seem to be argueing that as there is a continoum of gaining capacity that there is no distinction.
This same approach leaves you to understand that as one day will never really make a difference in if someone can consent to sex, you can not set an age of consent. Because there is always people a little younger who it makes no sense to exclude.
This is why most people are confortable with the bright line measure of viability in stead of some measure of cognitive ability.
Not even your own?
What discrimination? When his body is involved, it's his choice. When hers is involve, it's hers. When a child comes into existence, at birth, both are responsible for that child.
And if the responsibility for a child automatically defaults to the woman, then so do the rights. You can't claim "Men as a group have equal rights to custody of children they father" and in the next breath claim "Men as a group have the right to disclaim all financial responsibility for children they father", or even "children they father out of wedlock".
(And I've got to tell you, if I thought I might be at risk for creating a pregnancy every time I had an orgasm, I'd be damned careful where and in whose company I had one.)
On t.a I dealt with someone who argued that as long as the law required men to be financially responsible for children they father, he couldn't even masturbate in safety, since some woman might break into his home and steal his used tissue solely for the purpose of getting pregnant so she could demand his money. (My response was, "Have you any idea how paranoid you sound?")
As I said, when his body is involved, he can make the choice. When her body is involved, she can.The discrimination lies in the fact that while a women can get out of being responsible for a child through abortion, no such legal measure exists for the (potential) father. Do you disagree with this?
So choose. Do men have the right to avoid responsibility, or do they have the right to the children they father?Sure I can. Said rights exist in a kind of quantam state until one is chosen, and then the rest disappear.
I deny that it's anything but preposterous paranoid fantasy. Sure, a woman could break in and steal his sperm. And the government could be tracking everywhere I go by photographing my license place from space.I know, he should be throwing the tissue in the toilet and destroying the possibility.
You deny that it's a possibility, I take it?
So choose. Do men have the right to avoid responsibility, or do they have the right to the children they father?
As I said, when his body is involved, he can make the choice. When her body is involved, she can.
So choose. Do men have the right to avoid responsibility, or do they have the right to the children they father?
I deny that it's anything but preposterous paranoid fantasy. Sure, a woman could break in and steal his sperm. And the government could be tracking everywhere I go by photographing my license place from space.
Of course they do. A fetus begins exhibiting such things in sixth of seventh month of gestation. But yes, I would say a 5-month fetus has no software yet.And a fetus doesn't have memories, experiences, software? These all just happen during birth?