Look, my entire position is based on my complete inability to comprehend the suffering aspect. The more I try to wrap my head around the idea of suffering because one is NOT disabled, the more it confirms to me that this must be a severe phsychological dysfunction.
I am likewise entirely unable to comprehend a person wanting to have their penis cut off. Seriously. I cannot begin to comprehend what it would be like to have a male body, and feel like a female.
Does that mean that I should, like you, draw the conclusion that A) it is a psychological disorder and B) that surgery won't help?
I'm sorry, but arguments based on "I don't understand it, so I'll just squeeze it into a frame of reference that fits my world view" isn't terribly indicative of critical thinking...and were the same thinking applied to things like homosexuality and transgenderism, I'm sure you'd be condemning it quite vocally.
The difference for me is that there is no normal "paraplegic" condition and personality in the human race. Paraplegics do not have a set of generalised traits and mannerisms as we see between males and females. Being male or female are both totally normal human states and as much as we can argue the whole nature vs nurture thing, in general we can see that they are different in the way that they act, think and behave. There are no similar differences between a paraplegic and a non-paraplegic, they don't think, act, or behave differently, except in the one arena of physical motion. Think of it this way. Consider all the things that make you male (or female for the girls). Now consider all the things that make someone a paraplegic. See the difference?
And once again, you've failed to directly answer a question that I've asked you twice -- should BIID sufferers be allowed to have surgery?
I have problems with both your arguments, and sgtbaker's, in that you seem to have already concluded that this
must be a psychological disorder. You present no evidence or proof for this situation, and certainly have far, far less knowledge than doctors who have actually
studied the condition, and are unable to reach a definitive conclusion...yet you are nevertheless comfortable in reaching that conclusion.
There are at least
two options as to the cause of BIID. One is psychological, the other is neurological. You talk about nature vs. nurture, yet consider only one possibility in this regard. If BIID has a psychological cause, then it is more of a 'nurture' thing; but if it has a neurological cause, then it is very much a 'nature' thing. They feel this way
because that is the way their brain has been biologically programmed to make them feel.
Yes, there are differences from transgenders, nobody is arguing that the conditions are identical; but nor does the fact that "they are different" equal "they are wrong".
I begin to understand some of the stress and difficulty that BIID sufferers face. They look at the struggles that people such as transgenders have faced in the past (and, indeed, in modern times)...being told that they are "sick", that their condition is a psychological disorder that should be "cured", etc. And then they see the people who've gone through those struggles
saying exactly the same things about them.
How far down the social ladder are you when those who should be most sensitive to such condemnation join in with treating you the same way?
Here are the facts as I see them:
1) BIID sufferers are most definitely suffering. Their condition causes significant psychological stress, to the point that it drives some of them to self-injury and suicide (wylz is currently having major struggles himself in this area). And please, don't argue that this is an indication of BIID being a psychological disorder, unless you're going to argue that gays who commit suicide prove that homosexuality is a psychological disorder.
2) There is evidence that surgery will significantly alleviate or eliminate all this psychological stress and suffering. That the quality of life for BIID sufferers
is measurably improved by having such surgery.
3) It hurts nobody else. This is another one of those "It's my body" things. Hell, people can get all sorts of bizarre things done to their bodies these days, and even if we can't understand, or think it's weird/disgusting, we generally hold that it is their body, and their right to make such a decision.
I don't understand this any more than you guys. I think it is bizarre, and I shiver at the thought of anyone wanting to have a limb cut off, or their eyes removed, or their spinal cord severed. But then, I also cannot understand someone wanting to have their penis removed, and I think that the very concept of feeling like a woman when I have a man's body is bizarre.
But when I put aside my
emotional reaction; when I consider that my perspective and worldview is not the
only legitimate one; when I look at the actual evidence...
...then I reach the conclusion that the suffering of transgenders and of those with BIID is entirely real, and legitimate (even if with different causes),
regardless of my perception of it. And that, at least based on the evidence at hand, in both cases surgery
does result in significantly improved quality of life for both groups,
without harming anyone else.
So regardless of my emotional reaction, what
rational argument could I have for opposing surgery for
either group?