And if you talk to a prostitute in Southafrica dealing with unprotected sex to make some money, and she tells you "Well, AIDS might kill me in two decades.
this thread has morphed quite a great deal since its inception
Well, I would have picked the arrival of ceo and RF along with the return of your good, simian, apologist self, the standard of discourse would improve immeasurably.
Looks like it so far.

However, focusing only on celibacy and monogamy actually makes the problems worse. It has been shown by the CDC and the WHO that when those who believe in celibacy and monogamy from a religious perspective fail to live up to their ideals they are more likely to not practice safe sex.
Yep, I certainly wouldn't argue for the RCC approach, I've thought anyone anti-condom is an idiot since I caught the clap at age 21!
The only danger with what you're suggesting - education, abstinence, use of condoms, no HIV+ prostitutes - would be considered a
holistic approach, where I come from!
I understand your problem with the word, it is often used by the idiot brigade, but it does have a real usage. I think it's just a semantic issue. I actually try to use it myself, just to try to wrest the word back out of the mouths of the fraudsters. Why let those pricks have our language? Let 'em stick to making crap up along with their legends - garbage like "neuro-linguistic programming", "parapyschology" and other obvious BS. Don't let 'em use real English!
This is where I start to really get a good kick out of it.
Yet again, I wouldn't dispute and have never disputed that position and in fact I doubt that I've ever written such a mild criticism of the RCC. I'm usually much more vitriolic than "pretty hypocritical", yet I'm a christian apologist! Jesus, Andyandy had to get me to downgrade my posthumous charges against Theresa of Kolkata from murder to manslaughter!
In the case of AIDS and Africa, if it were possible to punish the church for its sins by burning a few churches down, I'd be providing the lighter, but the facts don't stack up.
Apart from condom abstention being largely ignored in RSA at the moment, you will note that the RCC is
among the nation's leading providers of antiretroviral drugs, HIV counseling and hospice care . Would you care to hazard a guess as to which atheist charities are in RSA dishing out drugs and care right now?
That doesn't make the RCC a "good" organisation any more than the Pope's condom position makes it "bad", but you can't escape the fact that the RCC is fighting against AIDS at the front end while large sectors of the world wish the images of Africans dying would just go away.
Some parts of the RCC are good, some are bad and some downright evil.
The RCC's position on condoms is stupid, dangerous, archaic BS dressed up as some kind of message from god, but has it actually done a great deal of harm?
As Herz has pointed out, if you live in rural Kenya, it's not as easy as thinking you're about to get lucky, so pop down to the dairy and grab a box of your favourite latexy, ribbed-for-pleasure things.
My understanding is that the vast majority of prostitutes in Kenya are HIV+ - over 80% reportedly. How many of 'em do you reckon are Catholics?
Two of the countries with the highest rate of teenage pregnancy (and therefore unprotected sex) are USA and NZ. Now, I don't know how hard condoms are to obtain in USA, but here, schools
give them away, yet our kids have even more kids than Yank kids have kids.
People have sex, and condom usage isn't the cure on its own. You jump up and down about the left-footers, then when you even mention men raping virgins and you don't utterly scream about ridiculous witch-doctor-inspired beliefs? Do you think many Catholics subscribe to that belief?
Then again, is that a fact about AIDS in Africa, or simply
white man's myth?
Even the
vice-President of South Africa didn't know what condoms are used for! (not RCC, btw)