'Smart' and stupid are not antonyms.
Exactly. They're adjectives.
'Smart' and stupid are not antonyms.
Evidence?
Ad hominems are not insults.
True, I haven't done a scientific study. But several years of posting on various forums have shown this to consistently happen. I'm willing to be shown this is just confirmation bias, but I certainly see it a LOT so I'm skeptical of that!![]()
Most people do not come to this forum, or anywhere else, in order to constantly strive to be the perfect skeptic. They come here to chat with friends, joke about things they find amusing, argue about politics, laugh at silly things people have said, and so on. Sure, there will often be some skepticism involved, but it would be foolish to imagine that everything everyone says here will always be as skeptical as possible. When someone calls someone else stupid, it's very rarely meant as an unassailable logical counter to an argument. It's simply that they think the other person is stupid and want them to know that. Trying to find the logical reason for something that was never meant as a logical argument is an exercise in futility.
You wrote, "The thing is, when you throw in the gratuitous insult, the reader is more than likely to just ignore your argument and focus on your insult. Their false beliefs may end up reinforced." (emphasis added)
There are far more people reading threads than posting, so your experience is limited to just those who respond. You don't know how the rest are affected. And while some may object to the insult, how do you know what there beliefs are after things calm down?
The O'Reillys and Limbaughs of the world do quite well. Penn and Teller do quite well with their ********! show. Randi did quite well, and much of his work was filled with invective. It's interesting for some (probably a lot of) people to see it. You can't really look at in isolation, meaning just the recipient of the "insult." After all, most of those people wouldn't change their minds anyway.
I'm not saying it's the only way to go, but I see no evidence that it's ineffective, and I see circumstantial evidence that it is effective.
It would be interesting to do some actual studies on this. But can we at least agree that its annoying to read the inevitable slew of fallout posts complaining about the insult? And that they are often thread hijackers that prevent more detailed discussion. Or at least cause distraction that ends up derailing some otherwise interesting threads?
What drives me crazy are those who feel the need to step in and tell everyone to play nice, especially when they have offered nothing else.
It never ceases to amaze me that this actually needs to be said, but it seems like it does, because so many people seems to think that only Spock-like discussions should take place here. (I was going to make a reference to debating societies, but that's wrong, because debaters use whatever argument works, even if it involves appeal to emotion or is otherwise not Skeptic-Approved.)
I know I've been irreversibly put off the "correct" lines of "skeptical" thinking on a lot of topics by all the venom, arrogant put-downs of disagreement, and inconsistent standards of reasoning on this board.
lol, I've been that guy! So I guess it bothers me less! But I usually try to contribute as well.
"Some people who believe X are meanies. Therefore, X is false."
With compelling logic like that, I'm sure you were "put off" skeptical thinking long before you got here.
And there we have another prime example. Don't use reason to present your case, just sneer and snipe and be as smug as possible.
I've met extreme fundamentalists with more basic respect for other human beings than a lot of the "humanists" around here.
In other words, I would tend to be fine with, "What kind of selfish, sick bastard are you that you would rather see somebody die than pay a few extra dollars in taxes to pay for their health care?" By contrast I'm much less tolerant of something like, "Spoken like a true conservative. Were you butt-raped as a child?" And I would be very much against, "Does your mother know you're such an *******?"