It seems to me it's the murder part that they don't like. So those in the church who distance themselves from the murder of this doctor and in fact condemn it, are not hypocrites at all. They are consistent in their belief that murder is wrong.
No they're not--at least not most of these "moderates".
If they believed it was murder, they would support laws that sought to punish the woman who conspired or contracted for the murder.
If they beleived it was murder, it would make no sense at all for them to allow exceptions for rape and incest (which most moderate pro-lifers do support).
ETA: If they believed it was murder, it also wouldn't make sense to allow exceptions for the mother's health or life. I can't imagine they could construe such situations as killing in self-defense! (To make that defense, you have to believe that an unlawful force is threatening someone's life. If the fetus is a person, it has done nothing unlawful.) Also, some forms of contraception that are widely used--yes even by pro-lifers!--would also be considered murder. For that matter, even if they refrain from using contraceptives themselves, their actions wrt to people around them using such contraceptives are not consistent with belief that those friends and family members are committing murder.
They spout this inflammatory rhetoric that they themselves don't believe in, then pretend to be shocked when someone actually believes it and acts accordingly.
Yes, I understand there is an exceptionally small minority who consistently hold the position that, "Abortion is murder" (they would give the woman who has an abortion a life sentence for conspiring to "murder" the fetus and they make no exceptions for rape or incest or even for the life or health of the mother) but who also eschew violence.
I would love to meet those three or four people some day.
(By the way, although I understand, "Abortion is murder" to mean "Abortion should be considered murder", I could take them at face value and prove they don't literally believe, "Abortion is murder." If you knew of a murder being committed and you are opposed to violence, you'd probably dial 911 and report the matter to the authorities. If someone really literally believed "Abortion is murder" they would clearly be delusional.)