Greetings my friend.
I'll try to restate what I've already said.
My friend just give me the same respect I have shown you and answer my questions.
1- if God has control over what “he’ does how does this loving father allow a child/person to suffer when he knows it will happen and yet does nothing to stop it?
It is by this thinking his fault and makes him far from being a loving father.
2-Why does “he” allows the wishes to be safe and happy of the person being harmed by the being harming them or the natural disasters that harm people that he is in full control of and the beings being harmed by them have no control over?
3-The same would be said for all many illnesses that the being does not seek but this God forces on them, why?
4- You have also said God does not force you to respect him. That would not be the case in most God based beliefs as you either respect and believe in him or you will forever suffer correct?
This is like stand before your child with a bat telling them they need not respect you but if they do you will beat them to death with the bat.
5-Do you believe God has unconditional love?
Please, let us conduct a respectful interaction and conversation.
I will show you again respect and address everything you say and ask. I look forward to you doing the same.
God created/creates creative beings.
I respect you believe that.
For whatever reason, God feels it is important that these beings have free will.
1- How do you know what God feels/thinks?
I have pointed out but you ignore that we do not have a complete free will. I no matter how I wish run 100 miles an hour etc.
Also and what you have ignored when a person shoots me because he wanted to he exercise his free will but my free will to not be shot is ignored.
Does God ONLY respect free will to harm?
The creative beings, not being God, have the capacity to make bad choices.
I respect you believe that but can if you wish demonstrate many hundreds or thousands of cases in the Bible or the holy books of other God based religions where this being/God has made very evil choices.
Regardless, how is it free will for the child who is raped and killed ? Please answer.
Without free will, the creative beings would not be creative beings, but copy machines.
my friend I do believe in a form of free will as I have said, please just be honest and answer my questions.
To consider the alternative is impossible as we are flawed creative beings.
My friend please stop dancing around and answer my questions.
When a man rapes and kills a child what of the free will of the child, parents, family and friends to not have her harmed?
Does God only allow free will for evil acts?
As for parents...different parents have different standards.
what does this have to do with what I said?
Take proms. Fornication/alcohol usually go hand in hand, with I'd say 50% of kids. Go ahead and scoff, some of you are talented at that.
What does this have to do with anything?
Anyhow, different parents will have different threshholds in judging how to handle the situation. Should you kid go to the problem?
What???
Should the kid be chaperoned from start to finish? Or do you allow anything to happen.
No, they could be as your God is and allow the child go to the prom knowing that the child will drink, and park later knowing that a rapist and killer that he has full control over will rape and kill her and her date.
This parent ( god) knew this would happen allowed it to happen and helped it to happen. Is it the child’s fault in your mind?
Panhasiri, you would have your parenting decisions placed on God.
My friend read my post again slowly and you will see how you have not understood what is written.
If God's parenting decisions do not match yours, you would say he is not all-loving. That is fine. In response, I would say that God must not have his parenting decisions contingent on you, for that would make his choices less potent than yours.
My friend do you know what analogy means?
As for all-loving. You appear to hold that having the possibility of creative beings making bad choices means that God is not all-loving.
What is not all loving is allowing a child to do something or have something done to them that they have no control over or choice in when you have all the power to stop it and you are the very one who put in place the causes that will harm her.
I disagree. We not only have the choice to make bad choices, but good choices as well.
STOP, take a deep breath and read what is written.
IF a child who does not want to be raped and killed is raped and killed by a man who wanted to do this.
Her parents, grandparents etc all did not want here to be raped and killed.
It was not their choice but in your belief the killers free will comes first?
In addition, the temporal world is not the end-all, be-all.
that is your belief and irrelevant. Are you saying it is OK for some people to really suffer greatly and that is ok?
There is another world, and their is redemption, and there is eternal justice.
I will be happy to see your proof of this but find that right or wrong meaningless to this conversation.
As for "forcing" of respect. I do not confuse force/allow, and I am not saying that you do either, but to be clear, allowing someone to respect you is different from forcing someone to respect you.
Not at all. You believe God is all knowing, knowing I will be Buddhist and not believe in “him” long before I was born, as do using today 76% of the worlds population do not believe in your Christian God.
Knowing this ahead of time no matter how they live he is going to punish them for doing what he knew they would do, not believe in him or massage his ego.
I will say again, you ignored this.
An analogy for your God would be this.
A father knows his son will tell a little fib to him, he asks his child to answer already knowing he will fib. He tells him he wants him to tell the truth but it is up to him but if he fibs he is going to beat him to death with a bat.
Like all-loving, our concepts of eternal punishment differ as well I reckon. To me, eternal punishment is the accepted result for a person who does not embrace God, rejects God, continues to rebel, and refusees to repent.
how sad and evil and un-loving this god is.
His love is predicated on his ego and having beings massaging his ego. He allows them to be born knowing they will not believe in him, many never having any opportunity to even know he is a possibility. He never proves he exist and makes you just guess but knows that most never will believe in him.
He then makes suffer for all time people who he knew would not believe in him. People he knew would not believe in him who may live a year to 99 just a blink of the eye will suffer forever simply because they would not believe in him.
I have no such respect for such a being, this “God” I have only sadness for his for how evil he is.
Suffering then is a choice on earth, and a choice after the earthly life is over.
1-How did the child who was kidnapped and raped choose that?
2- How did the person hurt or killed by the hurricane, earth quake, flood etc choose this suffering?
3- How did the person who contracts the most painful illness choose this suffering.
I could go on for hours, please stop and thing about what you say.
Eternal damnation is an extension of free will. God allows us to damn ourselves in our war against him.
the child that is born into a tribe in the most distant rain forest never seen by other humans is at war with God?
Stop and think.
As for the bat analogy, I agree. God does not threaten us with baseball bats. The Hell analogies...they are pedological conceits I think, meant to scare. But they all pale in comparison to what we can not imagine, a life absolutely cut off from God's grace.
I have great joys and happiness without your God. I will rather stay with people who suffer and help them then be near such an evil self centered God.
God does not say acccept me or Hell.
My friend I can help you learn your bible better if you like.
Deuteronomy 32:22
For a fire is kindled in mine anger, and shall burn unto the lowest hell, and shall consume the earth with her increase, and set on fire the foundations of the mountains.
Matthew 5:22
But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.
Matthew 18:9
And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire.
Mark 9:43
And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Mark 9:45
And if thy foot offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter halt into life, than having two feet to be cast into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Mark 9:47
And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out: it is better for thee to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye, than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire:
James 3:6
And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
Revelation 20:14
And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.
You look at it from the negative, and for good reason, as there is a history and a foundation for that in Judeo-Christain theology. These analogies you can no doubt refer to and quote are teaching aids.
A teaching aid? Believe in me or die?
God is positive, however. God asks us to embrace. If we don't embrace, we will not be forced to embrace.
So you do not believe God is all knowing?
Hell is not being hit with a baseball bat, or fire, or ice. It is a complete severance from God's grace, and that is worse than any constructed parable or analogy.
I respect that is how you wish to interpret your Bible.
Unconditional love means there is a possibility of forgiveness or redemption or reconciliation. But that can not be forced on anyone.
No my friend. Unconditional be no conditions not one.
Believe in me or suffer is not unconditional.
Also again it seems you are saying God is now all knowing, that is interesting.
As for the dictionary definition it exists. Because a dictionary definition exists, that does not mean it corresponds to the reality of God.
God is a belief not a reality until proves to be such. I greatly respect you and your belief but it is not fact.
The definition is a definition of what the word means not what you want it to mean.
Definitions change throughout human history of course, particularly when you examine realities like science or anatomy.
All realities and facts.
You would, again, hold God to what is written in a dictionary. I don't.
I hold god as a myth. I hold love and respect for all beings and their beliefs but I hold God as a unproven myth just as unicorns.
One more thing, and this is an aside. God didn't create evil.
Again you do not know your bible well.
I will offer you only a few examples but if you wish more I will supply them for you:
"I am Jehovah, and there is none else; besides me there is no God. I will gird you, though you have not known me; that they may know from the rising of the sun, and from the west, that there is none besides me: I am Jehovah, and there is none else. I form the light, and create darkness; I make peace, and create evil. I am Jehovah, who does all these things." (Isa. 45:5-7)
The Lord hath made all things for himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil." Proverbs 16:4
Do you believe your God lied?
Rather, he created creative beings who can not make perfect choices as God does. He created the possibility for non-perfect creative beings to make faulty choices.
Then punishes them for doing what he made them do.
Be well my friend.