Maybe you should put more value on valuable things instead of illusions.
You think I am having "illusions" here? You really are working me over. Give it your best shot. Or maybe you have the "illusions" on how you are working me over?

The point was that your repetition of how you perceive you've been wronged belies your forgiveness of those acts.
You think so. Well now I am forgiving you. Children should be given room for being children. Now a good Mother should forgive her children for their wrong ways. That way Grace is created in them. So unlike my wife who liked her punishment. Not that I judge her. Just gave me the opportunity to teach her as my child and install Grace in her.
You haven't forgiven anything. All you do is pay lip service to forgiveness, all the while holding on to your bitterness.
Well now it is "lip service" to you. And you really think that "bitterness" is behind me forgiving you.
Nope it is not. Grace is.
I am that I am. Graceful towards them and now towards you too.
I don't think the world needs your versions of forgiveness or self control.
Yep. They need Grace to replace their "bitterness" which you are holding on too.
No i don't need to ask your wife whether she raised two good children.
Yep you do. That way you will conquer your fear towards her.
Plenty of single moms raise good children all over the world.
It is a pity they did it alone. Better with two parents.
They don't need a husband and they certainly don't need a husband like you.
Yep they do. And they need Grace too. With that they would not have been single. Being single their punishment for lack of Grace.
The reason you don't know how they can do that is because you're not a mother.
Nope. You know that they did it. And you know that everything went splendid. You know and you should teach people on how to be good single parents.
I will rather stick to both parents and Grace.
You're not even any kind of parent, as far as I can tell.
Well. It is only you "telling". So how much worth do you think God assign to "you telling"?
You only have reason to ask for her forgiveness. Have you?
She actually lacks Grace. I am here to help her grow into more of God. She is a child of God. Meaning a god. And meaning my child also. Only thing is she has not grown much.