Then it is not a worthy relationship
Forgiveness doesn't even require a relationship - ie. I can choose to forgive any person who I believe has harmed me. For instance I am descended of Scots-Irish immigrants who came to Canada at the time of the Famine. I can choose to resent and feel aggrieved for the injustice inflicted by the British government and absentee landlords for their less then charitable treatment of the Irish and hold a grudge against "the damned English" allowing it to poison my view of everything English and every English person, or I can choose to forgive those persons, and not let the hate poison me. I have not relation with the people who made the decisions at the time of the Famine, and it is not necessary for such a relation to exist to feel resentment. Reciprocation is simply not part of forgiveness, it is a unilateral act of a person to cease to resent another party for a real or perceived harm.
Punishment is part of the human story.
And? Being harmed by another does not require the ability to harm them back in order to forgive them for the harm that they do to us.
The idea that punishment is necessary is perpetuating a cycle of violence which is broken by forgiving someone.
You might want to try that "turn the other cheek" thing JC advocated.
He chose not to be but they were still wrong. That could not be ignored.
The doesn't answer the question of who God the Son sacrificed himself to, or why he did not simply forgive.
You just do not see it. Yet.
to "give up resentment" means there was an original "resentment"
"to grant relief from debt" means there was a debt.
"cease to feel" means there was an original "feel"
And? That doesn't actually explain why you think there is difference between a deity forgiving someone, and a person forgiving someone.
So why do you not have that "wisdom" then?
Lovely, and now we come to the insult the questioner portion of our program.
Forgiveness does not require sacrifice - unless you feel that resentment is such an important part of a person's psyche that losing that resentment is the sacrifice we make.
So why was the party "offended" in the first place? With this sacrifice being "offended" is done away with.
Again, forgiveness does not require sacrifice - unless you feel that resentment is such an important part of a person's psyche that losing that resentment is the sacrifice we make.
And the sacrifice will do away with that. It should be pure Love not only from the side of the mother but also from her child.
Forgiveness and sacrifice are two completely different things - one is not a requirement of the other.
Ambivalence