I don't miss that point, I deny its validity. There would certainly be less of this going on, but if you think child porn would disappear if nobody bought it, you're kidding yourself.
Now you're getting stuck on "people who pay". I'm not referring to them exclusively.
To a large extent, yes. But to some extent some are also doing it just because they themselves are "into it" ie for their own sick thrills or whatever.
No. They keep pictures for themselves because of their own sick thrills. They post them online because they know other people want to see them. That's kind of the only reason anybody posts
anything online

The real tragedy here is the crime, not the fact that others who didn't participate see the crime later. That's sick but hardly comparable to the crime itself. If nobody saw the crime, it is just as horrific.
No, you cannot seperate the two. The courts may itemize such a terrible thing for sentencing and bookeeping purposes. But in real life, the abuse itself, along with the act of recording the abuse and distributing the recordings, is ALL part of the
same grand offense against that child (or those children, as the case may be). Think big picture here, and do not make the mistake of minimalizing the effect that child pornography has on its victims in order to make the situation easier for you to argue away. Leave that job to folks like....well, nevermind.
Sorry, what I meant was just what I said.

Perhaps you could clarify.
A person who induces panic by yelling "fire" in a crowded theater (to borrow an overused idiom) may not physically touch a single person. But if his screams incite panic, and people get hurt (or even killed), the fact that he never touched anybody doesn't matter - he's at least partially liable for the consequences of his actions. He doesn't get sent up for murder, but he does pay a penalty.
People who download child pornography, even for free, serve to confirm and reinforce the fact that "there are people out there who want more of this stuff". So the person who would normally "simply" abuse a child for his own benefit (almost spat the word out), decides to upload some photos so his sick friends can cheer him on. If nobody out there wanted child pornography, there would be no incentive for this person to post his photos online. It's really that simple. So yes, the consumers are partially liable, and thus they should have to pay a penalty. And of course they do. Which is how it will stay.