You can characterise it like that if you want to, but I don't see it that way at all. I also know that you can't really think there are only two choices, because there are multiple forms of both monarchy and republican models. I suggest you are over-simplifying, in both this post and in the previous mocking one.
You are very wrong in saying "you don't want a democratic choice because you are afraid of what the choice will be". I don't want a democratic choice because, as I said, any democracy infers some power, and I want a powerless head of state. I am not afraid of who it would throw up, I am afraid of anyone who got the office. Anyone at all. If David Attenborough were to be president, I'd still be afraid.......because it isn't the holder that would bother me, it is the job description and the power of the office. You are also very wrong indeed to lump all supporters of the status quo together as "lapping it up". I'll accept that my reason for having left the republican camp is a little quirky, but it isn't thoughtless, nor is it infantile.
BTW, if we were to have a referendum on monarchy vs republic, and monarchy won, then we're in deep do-do. We would have given the rich morons some legitimacy, and of course, the same applies to the office of president. So even the holding a referendum on the subject would complete bugger up the situation in my view, whichever side won.
I am very surprised you would resort to "childish" and "growing up" and so on. Not what I've come to expect from you.