Loss Leader
I would save the receptionist., Moderator
Except that self is constantly changing/evolving.
Without question. However, I think Jabba is right in that most healthy people experience their "selves" as being continuous. This experience is an illusion, but it seems to be the general feeling.
(How this helps Jabba, I have no idea. I feel like the earth is flat. I experience it as flat. The earth is not flat.)