OK now I am even more confused. If CO2, or water vapor absorbs IR coming from the earth, it would also absorb it coming from the sun. Since about half the sun's energy reaching the stratosphere is IR, then CO2 is going to play much more of a role in the absorption of IR coming in, as water vapor is virtually non existent at that altitude, while CO2 can keep increasing there.
It's a matter of wave length. Let me see if I can find a figure with black body spectra that simulates the sun and the earth surface... hmm ... I can't find now an figure stripped of deeper elements, but this one may suffice:
The red surface depicts the energy coming from the Sun and reaching the surface. The "amputation" on the left is mainly because of ozone. The dents are mainly because of water vapour.
The blue surface depicts the energy from the surface going out into space. Water vapour also blocks part of the spectrum, but in different wave lengths.
But carbon dioxide has a small effect in the portion of solar energy reaching the surface and a larger effect in the portion of IR trying to leave the planet into space. That's why increasing CO2 warms the planet: the more of it there is, the less energy reaches the surface, but in a more larger scale the more energy gets reflected back into the atmosphere and only can escape by changing to shorter wave-lengths, that is, the emitting surface must get warmed to achieve that.
The effect of human actions -and sometimes nature too- in increasing CO2 is widen the rightmost opaque area in the CO2 spectra, so the blue part of the figure loses a bit of the abrupt slope in its right, what in turn forces the spectra to move a tiny bit to the left and increase radiation a bit in all available frequencies, that is, warming the planet.
Of course, there's a lot of counteracting processes -and some positive feedbacks too- that moderates the result, and mainly there is a transient effect because the planet has a humongous amount of water -it could be shaped as a second moon of more than 1100 km -700 miles- of diameter. So the water in the planet would be capable of absorbing all the energy the sun gives without radiating a sole photon back into space and the oceans will warm less than 1°C per year.
So CO2, and especially an increase will have more of an effect on incoming IR than any change in water vapor.
CO2, already explained. It's water vapour you might want to analyse.
The problem here is you have to understand quantum physics. We can discuss it but more water vapour is not going to bounce back more incoming energy than what is going to bounce back down. In your place, I'll better bet to clouds increasing albedo. You'd have a better chance to keep a notion of a warming-not planet by following that path. I mean, you could dilate the discussion here by following that.
Damn it, my head is going to explode again.
Take it easy!