Fair? Gratuitous remarks to degrade the victim ,Very rape like in fact.We both know it wasn't the reference to pot that was the boundary you crossed.
Only the remarks to illegal pot growing could be considered degrading.
The other remarks would indicate that Meredith was a fairly run-of-the-mill Leeds student who happened to like pot, like a very large number of students.
The only person degrading her is you. By attributing degrading values to Merediths characteristics, you are the one asserting that she was somehow a lesser person for going out pubbing, trying pot, trying anal.
The rest of us? Well, some of us have actually been to Uni in Britain. Meredith wouldn't have stood out at all, especially not in a student city like Leeds.