Dean's list... She has not used antagonized correctly. And subjugated. But I have to disagree with your "savvy" comment. I think her letter to the court for example was very well written in thought and style. You may disagree.
I do disagree. Hopefully her Italian letter had better word usage.
I can say that she seems very mature for her age - unfortunately. And I say that because she has had to grow up much faster than many due to her special circumstances. Certainly much more mature than most of that age.
She's 26+ years old. I don't know how you judge her maturity or others but I see nothing that would indicate she is very mature. The videos of her in "natural" setting have her a giggly her but difficult to judge based on those reports.
And with regard to her misuse of words, I agree that it is surprising that someone didn't proof read for her and correct those. In light of her public position, you could argue that it is important for her to make no such mistakes. But you see the problem of course. If her emailed letter was perfect - pick your style - others would be criticizing her for not authoring her own work. As I have seen stated to some degree with her book.
Well I think using the correct word for what she is trying to convoy wouldn't have made it look as if it were ghost written. Remember she is billed as a dean's list creative writer.
What prompts me to pop up from the bleachers is, again, this oft repeated meme about her savvyness or maturity. Bunk I say. Savvy compared to what? In my book she owes no apologies. She had her youth stolen from her, and people want to criticize her for in fact being youthful. Not cool in my book.
Well i didn't say she owed anybody anything. It is my impression that she isn't as savvy as she thinks she is.
Her demeanor is stilted? And can be seen as a cover for guilt? Please. That is a no win situation and you know that. Nothing she does will be interpreted in her favor. That is the history of this case.
Look, I'm not saying it is a cover for guilt but she doesn't come off sincere and forthcoming to more than just the PGP people from schadenfreude.om and net. Personally, I think she is what she is and that hurt from day one.
For what it's worth, I happen to agree with your statement . She doesnt present herself the way I think she should either (she's not me). When I see her I realize she's just an ordinary person trying to be on camera what she's not. (comfortable)That's a lawyer, a rebel, Erin Brockavich (sure thats spelled wrong) type .
Ive had a camera in my face with a reporter asking questions and can testify that my brain turned to Jello. It would be even more difficult if my freedom depended on it and I knew people would twist every thing I said around. I'm in favor of the you tube video but with lawyers to anwer the tough questions. Edda seems like a good candidate too. JMO
I would still like a well made video with experts and lawyers and segments from Ch. 5. Amanda could make the statement that since she had no involvement in whatever happened that night she knows no more than the rest of the world as to what happened. She should say that it shouldn't be her job to prove innocence but it appears necessary and here is my case for innocence and turn it over to the video "host".
Who would that be Grinder? You? Who among us always says and does the right thing? And who among us could be perceived as saying the right thing by a group of people who are viewing every word and phrase through a lens of cynicism? Frankly, I'm in total disagreement with you. I don't think those without an opinion are viewing as you say Amanda's "stilted style" as a cover for guilt.
I'm saying that she isn't helping herself among those that are not enthralled by her or have decided that she was "railroaded" and is innocent beyond a shadow of a doubt.
As to whether I could advise her in a way that might improve her message, yes perhaps I could do that.
Amanda has been put in that position where she cannot win with the guilters. She is castigated for not reaching out to the Kerchers, and then when she makes any attempt it is viewed as self serving.
Okay you are now changing the subject. You address me and my position and then make an argument against something I didn't mention. Commonly called a straw man argument.
I'm reminded of Martin Luther King's "I have a dream" speech. While almost everyone looks back at that event today as a positive, I can assure you that the KKK and others in South Carolina, Mississippi, Alabama and the rest of the Deep South viewed it very negatively.
Yes the analogy is just about perfect.
While I expect the guilters to view any action by Amanda negatively, I refuse to accept their premise. Why do you look for a way to jump on their train of crazy thought and attempt to give it credibility?
Yes it is critical that all people that believe the case wasn't made against her must tow the line and not express seeing any faults in the kids.
She's definitely not the superficially charming and confident "psychopath" that many people want to believe she is. Amanda mostly seems quite awkward, although always thinking very carefully how to say things, which is completely normal as whatever she says will be analysed and criticised. She's going to be damned by some, whatever she does or says. If you look at all the horrendous names she has been called, she's doing amazingly well to be saying anything in public, I'm not sure that I could cope with the very public shaming and humiliation she has gone through
And does that mean one (me) shouldn't express shortcomings perceived? I fully understand being on camera and the difficulties she could have doing interviews, but I was addressing other more controlled communication.
I was also pointing out that the writing she does seems to filled with dramatic attempts and the usage of words beyond her knowledge. The fact that she seems to be writing a screenplay with every word she utters or writes.
"Don't put the mask of the assassin me" or "All You Need Is Love" were statements made by her that come to mind.
You've just hit upon something that I have had a continuing argument with Grinder about. Amanda doesn't come off "polished" on tv. But that doesn't mean bad. I was on the debate and speech team in high school, took drama, been a Rotarian as well as spent 30 years in sales. I work on being polished in speaking situations. It's always been a part of my job.
Did I say she didn't come off polished? No. I would suggest she be less polished and more down to earth.
But most people lose something being polished, and that is an appearance of sincerity. Amanda being a suspect in a murder trial will always be viewed "suspiciously" by many. There is no way of getting around that. So she can come off as polished and "slick" or not so polished and appear uncomfortable, which some ...don't mean to name names...(Grinder) as possibly covering something up.
Well Tesla there you go again. Please direct me to where I said that I thought she was covering up. Please direct me to where I called her "slick".
It's a classic no win PR situation.
No PR man would ever say that there was no win. Maybe a computer repairman might say that.
That is why although I think maybe she should be more practiced and polished, I'm not so confident that others view her through my perspective. So just maybe, developing polish in these circumstances might not aid Amanda in her present circumstance.
Huh???
Tesla did you look with disfavor on the little boy that uttered the words "the emperor has no clothes" ?
I think that Amanda's public persona should be managed or managed differently. She should express herself simply and clearly. She doesn't need to think that much about answers but rather just keep telling the truth and not "the best truth" she can up with. She should be told and drilled to stop with her flair for the dramatic and her attempts to use those big words.
* At least one word above was intentionally misused for affect
