Perhaps someone could give me a step by step list of everything I need to do to make Windows 8.1 work exactly like Windows 7.
That would help me a lot.
You would need to install a 3rd-party add-on, such as Classic Shell (which is generally free) or Start8 (which has a free trial, but is only $5 or less if you buy it.) And, that utility will take it from there. Start8 from StarDock is my favorite.
Is it? As far as I can see, "ribbon" stuff is exactly the same as the previous menu system, except that there are now large icons taking up screen space.
It is, basically, a toolbar on steroids. But, it replaces the menu system completely, so many users were put off by that, initially.
It happens that the Ribbon (which, by the way, was
thoroughly user tested for years, unlike Win8's Modern UI) actually did offer a distinct advantage over the menu systems of the past, since it offers more features with (usually) fewer clicks. And, things are grouped in a way that (usually) makes intuitive sense. (Though, I still wonder why the Select icons are all the way on the opposite end of the bar from the Copy and Paste icons.) So, in the long run, people loved it enough, that most of them do NOT miss the menus, anymore. And, the Ribbon is being adopted by other applications.
Compare that to Win8: Even a couple of years after its release, it seems too many people still miss the old, compact Start Menu, with its easier access to more features. And, no one else seems eager to adopt anything like Win8's UI.