Grinder
Penultimate Amazing
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Not to say that there was evidence that Rudy had sexually assaulted anyone before Meredith, but there are people who've said that Rudy was known for harassing women in clubs and such. As a woman who's traveled fairly extensively in Italy I would remark that for anyone to stand out in this way in Italy, where sexual harassment is rife, is saying something.
Yeah but this also came out after the fact, just like most of the stuff about Amanda. These reports weren't given before he was a killer and rapist.
Italian in my day were known for pitching asses and the described behavior was more of hitting on them in bars.
Unfortunately when boys / men talk in this kind of way to each other (although this is a fairly tame example), they do so thinking it's just a joke, we're just having a bit of 'banter'. But they do so within a context where (in the UK at least) 1 in every 4 women says that they have been raped. So they're contributing to rape culture, and it's likely that if you talk in this way a lot, at some point you'll do so to a rapist, and will have been part of normalising this way of viewing women for them.
Fools rush in where angels fear to thread...
It's pretty shocking how disgusting guys can be- just look up football pundit Richard Keys' comments to player Jamie Redknapp about an ex-girlfriend, Louise Glass. And he's a flipping grown up who should know better.
There is no football players with those names. Are you talking about that wimping sport soccer?