Minoosh
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I think natural IVF should be preferred ...
Natural IVF?
However, the intent is to have a pregnancy. I can accept this practice as a necessary thing in order to give a couple a baby they desperately want.
This gives people an opening to pick apart your words, you know. Necessary to satisfy their wants is also somewhat contradictory. If they're so damn desperate I imagine they could find a pre-existing baby to nurture. According to you they're lining up around the block to adopt.
If they want their own genetic child, or the woman wants the joy of pregnancy or whatever, that actually seems kind of selfish to me. Fill a need that actually exists, instead of manufacturing one and then thinking you're great because you fill this need you manufactured.
I know this seems insensitive to the heartbreak of infertility (violins) but there's no shortage of need in the world.
I had serious lifestyle issues during my most fertile years and went to great lengths not to conceive. (I was better-informed than most). And yet, if someone left a baby or young child on my doorstep, chances are I would get hooked in, because materially raising a kid would not be impossible at this point, and morally it would be as useful as just about anything else I could do.
I would hope that one day science can solve fertility problems without the need to discard multiple embryos.
IMO there are no fertility problems; there is plenty of fertility in the world to go around.
One area where I don't quote know how I feel is stem cell therapies.
No contest. They don't have to wait till fetuses have little fingers and toes and central nervous systems to harvest stem cells. I totally lose respect for pro-life forces, even the sincere ones, at this, if there are legitimate chances of easing suffering by utilizing disposable embryos (sorry, they are) for research. Our presumption is these cell clumps aren't sentient, even if they do form the unique genetic blueprint etc. I argued for earlier.
And on opinion/zeitgeist. My opinion is that the American public feels strongly both ways.
I can't stand the whole Octomom scenario (nothing against her personally, really; I just thing a compulsion to reproduce is, while literally the most natural thing in the world, seriously outmoded).
If those zygotes/embryos were harvested for stem cells, I think I would feel inclined to hold a brief ceremony honoring their contribution, kind of like kosher/halal practices, before cannibalizing them for practical purposes. I'm OK with it being cannibalism. I have signaled understanding for the idea that "it's not a choice, it's a child." But underneath that I still want it to be a choice. I wanted a loving home waiting for every child born, and every child who needs adoption at an older age, and if that standard can't be met, I would rather that the life of the "child" was ended. I even have sympathy for infanticide in some cases. There should be consequences, but in certain desperate situations I don't consider it anything like first-degree murder. Sadly, perhaps, I don't have much of a "human life is sacred" ethic. It's always a question, what bright shining possibility might we be losing with each abortion? I think it's a healthy enough question but if babies aren't wanted ... then let's not pretend they are; let's end it humanely.
