You're going to have to do better than that. I think you're colorblind, and don't see red at all. Prove me wrong. Describe the qualia to me. No objects, no wavelengths, no neuroscience. Qualia only, final destination.
Again, you're failing to address the actual question.
We were not in any way discussing the old saw of "How do I know that what's red to me is red to you?" That's utterly irrelevant here.
Also, there's no way to discuss consciousness without neuroscience. (I won't even ask why you think there should be.)
Furthermore, the ineffability of experience is also irrelevant here -- although it's certainly relevant to our understanding of consciousness generally.
However, if you
did want to discuss color without regard to wavelengths of light, you could discuss dreams.
You contend that nobody could dream about red if they'd never seen a "red object" but there's no evidence for that. Perhaps that sort of priming is necessary, but then again perhaps its not. At the moment, there's no way of knowing.
What is known, though, is that if a person is incapable of seeing red, no one could ever describe it to them, because experience and imagination use the same brain real estate.
So the question is not "How do I know you see red?"
The question is why you and I both
do see red when we look at a stop sign. Why not green?
We can't blame it on the wavelengths of light, because until our brains get around to performing the conscious experience of color, all we have is different neural activity, from which the experience of color cannot be deduced -- at least not yet, not with our current level of understanding.
That doesn't mean it's impossible to figure out, just that we haven't cracked that problem yet.