1 Corinthians, another part
I don't know how much time I have tonight, but let's see what I can do….
Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Paul practiced celibacy, and claimed it as one of his spiritual gifts, and apparently others have asked him, in the letter to which he's responding, if they should do the same even if they're married.
It's uncertain, however, if they're asking this because they think they should emulate Paul, or because Apollos is advocating a brand of wisdom practice in which the adherent is "wedded" to "Sophia".
In any case, Paul says no, if you're married, don't practice celibacy because doing so is depriving another person of their natural rights, and if you don't have the spiritual gift of celibacy then attempting to be celibate can lead you into temptation of Sin.
Note Paul's usual inclusiveness when it comes to gender.
He continues in the same vein:
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
But then we get an actual citation by Paul from Jesus himself.
To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.
This is interesting. Paul is saying that Jesus preached against divorce.
This does not seem to be related to his "call" by Jesus in the vision, so it is most likely a saying or doctrine of Jesus which was known to Jesus's students.
Paul then adds another bit of advice which he is careful to say comes from him and was not preached by Jesus -- that believers in the resurrection of Jesus should stay married to nonbelievers, if they'll stick around… a big "if", as you can imagine!
It's not difficult to understand why Jesus didn't teach about this particular point -- he had no idea that there would ever be such a group of believers!
Then he goes on to say that everyone should stay as they were when they were "called". Even if a person is a slave, that person should not attempt to leave their master.
Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is.
"The present crisis" is, of course, the impending end of the world.
Again, there is no citation from Jesus himself on this point, at least as far as Paul knows. But Paul's attitude seems to be, why bother?
And it's interesting that there are no quotes from Jesus on these latter points, and that fact may indicate that Jesus believed the Day of the Lord to be imminent, but perhaps not as imminent as Paul believes, since Paul sees Jesus as the "first fruits" of the harvest, which means the harvest is now underway, and the scythe could descend at any moment.
On the other hand, perhaps it's just that divorce is a common topic of religious contention, and Jesus simply had no opinion about these smaller matters about which the Corinthian congregation has specifically inquired.
There's no way to really know.
So how soon does Paul think the end will be?
What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.
Paul expects to see Jesus return at the head of God's army in his own lifetime.
I'm going to leave it there because in the next passage, on whether or not it's OK to eat food sacrificed to pagan gods, we get into a bit of theology that deserves a closer look than I have time to give it right now.
Thanks again for your patience.